Wendy's "To get it out of my head" Diary

Keeping_Positive

Thank you again for your support guys it lovely to see that you care when Im feeling carp.

dizzy_lizzie

Aw Bless ya' Wendy. I know when I'm fed up and read my posts from you and GR it really does make a difference. It's lovely that we can support each other
Spending time with OH sounds like a lovely idea. And the thing is Wendy, if you weren't bothered about him anymore then he's the last person you'd want to spend time with, so that's a good sign. Hope you get through the list.
Luvz Dizzy x

GirlRacer_2

Hi Wendy Diz is right. The fact that you want to spend time with OH is a positive sign. Make sure you make some 'us' time. I'm so glad your feeling a bit better.

Keeping_Positive

This weeks todo list is to:

[strike]Bake lemon cake if yoghurt not gone bad.[/strike]
Bake French loaf in BM
[strike]Do one days work[/strike]
[strike]Book kids and my dentist appointments[/strike]
Tidy, clean and declutter some if not all the rooms ready for a big clearout Car boot on Sunday.
Keep as low spend as possible because bank balance and cc bill looks far too low/high. - not too bad £11 on Guides + brownies yesterday, £10 school trip and 85p on vending machine today
Keep up with DDs various guides/brownie/school engagments - getting there
Exercise more maybe go for walks with OH
Spend time with OH
Keep positive and not dwell on the bad stuff I cant do anything about. feeling good so far

Not doing great but not too bad either. Had a good day at work so thats one horrible thing off the list. Just got to get around to tidying.

dizzy_lizzie

Hey Wendy...put that duster down, throw yourself on the sofa and open a bottle of wine. The dust will be there again tomorrow...
Luvz Dizzy x

Keeping_Positive

This weeks todo list is to:

[strike]Bake lemon cake if yoghurt not gone bad.[/strike]
Bake French loaf in BM
[strike]Do one days work[/strike]
[strike]Book kids and my dentist appointments[/strike]
Tidy, clean and declutter some if not all the rooms ready for a big clearout Car boot on Sunday.
Keep as low spend as possible because bank balance and cc bill looks far too low/high. - SEE BELOW :eek:
[strike]Keep up with DDs various guides/brownie/school engagments [/strike]
Exercise more maybe go for walks with OH
Spend time with OH
Keep positive and not dwell on the bad stuff I cant do anything about. feeling good so far


Todays spends are:

• Groceries £40.08 not too bad for a weekly shop just need to make it last.
• Birthdays - £42.99 MIL,FIL, BIL and £2. on party invites for DD2
• Parking £2.30
• Kids shoes/trainers £38 - Clarks trainers for each DD from the Clark sale and one set of sale trainers for DD2 (Out grew her last set in two months:eek: ). Part :money: with good shoes at great prices but not budgeted for this month.

I have been paying for things on debit card to avoid increasing the cc so I know our true postiion. Holiday spending money is being eaten need to be very careful. No sign of any decluttering yet so need to target that tomorrow. Could do with a good car boot result.


Hope you all have had a good day


Wendy xx

dizzy_lizzie

Hi Wendy...I'd love to be able to do the car boots like you but I find getting up soooo early virtually impossible.
Well done on making progress with your list.
Luvz Dizzy x

In_Search_Of_Me

Just popping in to say well done in the posive steps forward! Fab! O make time to look after you though and have some chill time amongst all the busyness! Babysteps but youre coming on leaps & bounds! Re the hair is there any way of doing it cheapr though? I know its dire but home pack saves loads of dosh...on of my "cant wait for" is the hairdresser dying mine but cant justify £80 a shot!!

Keeping_Positive

This weeks todo list is to:

[STRIKE]Bake lemon cake if yoghurt not gone bad.[/STRIKE]
Bake French loaf in BM
[STRIKE]Do one days work[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]Book kids and my dentist appointments[/STRIKE]
Tidy, clean and declutter some if not all the rooms ready for a big clearout Car boot on Sunday. - Well I cleaned the cooker
Keep as low spend as possible because bank balance and cc bill looks far too low/high. - £12.25 wasted on me today but did get £50 from OH with another £50 due :T
[STRIKE]Keep up with DDs various guides/brownie/school engagments [/STRIKE]
Exercise more maybe go for walks with OH - oops no walks just a few car trips
Spend time with OH Done and been lovely, he has given up smoking (as of Tuesday) been a bit of a bear with a sore head but not too bad. He rewarded himself today with some CDs (where £10 of my spends went on 2 for me). I have promised after 4 weeks a new everton shirt and a trip to Goodison in four months. Will be worth it if he quits.
Keep positive and not dwell on the bad stuff I cant do anything about. still feeling good so far

Today I have watched a part sports day (ruined through the rain), munched too much chocolate and two bags of crisps , baked some chop chip muffins with kids, washed up, cleaned cooker, swapped DD1s trainers for the right size. Still want to do some more hobnobs.

Guessing you all busy at work Ill catch up on your diaries later

xx

Keeping_Positive

Thanks ISOM

The hair is a cheap as I can get it for having highlights (£40-50 for mine I think dont know how the £70 split) but its been at least a year since the last and probably another year before they get done again. The norm is a £15 cut n dry.