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Please Help - Bankruptcy next week making me ill

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  • I am sorry to tell you there are plenty of female examiners at OR's offices. plenty of the male bankrupts flirt with me, its just gets may back up.
    Hiya Lotty,

    I dont know how many people on here are being 100% honest but i will be. I told some real porkies on loan applications and credit cards. In fact I managed to keep one credit card cos I forgot to mention it but my dreary old husband insisted on notifying the receiver guy when he found out.:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

    You'll be fine, just keep his mind away from awkward areas by flirting with him. Not quite sure what to suggest if its a her.:eek:

    Jane xx:beer:
  • tigerfeet2006
    tigerfeet2006 Posts: 14,030 Forumite
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    A2C thank you for your brilliant post. That was very useful.
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  • HiI just regret what i have done so stupid, it is putting me off going bankrupt now.
  • tigerfeet2006
    tigerfeet2006 Posts: 14,030 Forumite
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    Don't let it put you off BR please, Think how much better your life will be without the debt.
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    Loving life as a Kernow Hippy
  • I see where you are coming from, but if i have to do something likecommunity service, i would sooner forget about it.One of the reasons i want bankruptcy is to start a fresh, finding employmentgoing on training courses etc, but how can i do any of that if i get a criminal record.
  • tight_jock
    tight_jock Posts: 1,902 Forumite
    Lotty1 wrote: »
    HiI just regret what i have done so stupid, it is putting me off going bankrupt now.

    You can`t undo what is done but you can deal with it by going through with the BR and getting a fresh debt free start. We all do things in desperation when debt is banging down the doors.

    Be strong and do what you know is the right thing.

    :beer:
    TJx
  • tigerfeet2006
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    Lotty do as A2C has said and pm her. She will be able to put your mind at rest and talk you through it.

    From your postings I really do think you need to go BR and start a fresh.
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    The only stupid question is an unasked one
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  • How can i make a fresh start if i get a criminal record, i am getting pains in my chest thinking about it.By the way what did pm mean re a2c
  • fermi
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    PM = Private Message.

    Click on someones username and a menu should drop down with a link to PM someone.

    But it appears you have PM's disabled in your profile:

    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/profile.html?do=editoptions
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  • tigerfeet2006
    tigerfeet2006 Posts: 14,030 Forumite
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    Please try to calm down. This is not doing you any good.

    Click on Addicted2chocolates name and you will have several options come up. One is to send a private message (pm). Click on that and send her a message. She is very experianced and will be able to help you.
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