Mooloo's struggle with babies and bills

Savvy_sewing

Biggest*of*Mooloos wrote: »

Its not the savig side of it, its just the whole want to do it together - dont want to do it all on m own .... At least if i do it my way im not going to get it wrong.... and if he dosent understand then he will have no choice but to sit down and listen to me .....

If he is too imature at the moment, then you will need to take the purse strings. He hasnt seen the downside of getting it wrong. I think that you will just have to do like I did with your Dad, and arrange it yourself. At least you get what you want. Sometimes doing things together just causes a lot of tension. Its pretty rare that two people think so alike tht they can do it all together easily.:D

Can you not get his boss to pay his wages into a joint account? Then you can make the financial payments from that without continually nagging him for the cash?
Perhaps he is scared of facing the reality of a home. Lets face it he just wants to live in Towcester and he doesnt care how it will be done. He is not interested in how its done. Just the end result.:rolleyes:

Biggest*of*Mooloos

might make a card for g&g to say thanks for giving us a roof over our heads fo the past 2 months aswell (G) she will only teel me off if i gt her flowers - THo we are going to clean house from head to toe and get those blinds up that hve been sitting thee for 6 months waiting for MR G to put up bless him

Savvy_sewing

Thats great news. Lets just hope you get the house now or G & G will be over crowded.!!
A bunch of flowers is always a good thing to have.
Feels strange talking to you on here. Nice though. Dont get enough contact normally.
Whats the others doing tonight then? BF is coming over here, although we already have a house full in the other sitting room. Twins have friend over from School (roade), some fella. Then we have houseguest and her new fella here too. Good job that I have the second sitting room.

Savvy_sewing

Biggest*of*Mooloos wrote: »

might make a card for g&g to say thanks for giving us a roof over our heads fo the past 2 months aswell (G) she will only teel me off if i gt her flowers - THo we are going to clean house from head to toe and get those blinds up that hve been sitting thee for 6 months waiting for MR G to put up bless him

i remember when they went away years ago, and you and I painted the kitchen for them. Granny was in on it, but Grandad wasnt. It needs doing again now it was so long ago.
It will be nice for them to come home to a spick and span clean house. Perhaps thats a way of you earning a bit more dosh? Cleaning for private homes?? :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Biggest*of*Mooloos

Mooloo wrote: »

Think I need to save some dosh for Portugal, as the maintenance fee has just about trebled over the last couple of years. So I want to see if there are things I can do to save/up my income. Although I just dont have the abilities to make huge amounts if I have to do too many physical jobs. So taking on another job after work is no longer viable for me.?

Think we might have to as then we can do it together - work 12hrs at outside bar on sat for Landlord of TPA's £75 - Straight in the savings pot (that no one knows about yet:rotfl: my little secret hehe)

Biggest*of*Mooloos

Mooloo wrote: »

Thats great news. Lets just hope you get the house now or G & G will be over crowded.!!
A bunch of flowers is always a good thing to have.
Feels strange talking to you on here. Nice though. Dont get enough contact normally.
Whats the others doing tonight then? BF is coming over here, although we already have a house full in the other sitting room. Twins have friend over from School (roade), some fella. Then we have houseguest and her new fella here too. Good job that I have the second sitting room.

BF is at football so wont be back till half 10 at the earliest depends on how long he spends @ m8's playbg he PS3

HM has gone to the Pub at m8 demanded but im going to phone her in an hour and tell her i need her to come help me with the shopping delivery im waiting for - ooohh Mr T man just rang to say he's going to be early and to make sure im in that was nice of him

Savvy_sewing

Havent been behind a bar for a while. did an evening at Brasenose college with BF last year, before that our Pub 2 years ago!!.
Still looking at what to do for the 3 days after our apartment is finished, as BF booked a flight on the following Wednesday. We are looking at another All INCLUSIVE...
Perhaps I can get fit enough to do the odd bar?
Well done on earning the £75 is that this coming saturday with the Grand Prix on> or was that last saturday?

Savvy_sewing

Biggest*of*Mooloos wrote: »

BF is at football so wont be back till half 10 at the earliest depends on how long he spends @ m8's playbg he PS3

HM has gone to the Pub at m8 demanded but im going to phone her in an hour and tell her i need her to come help me with the shopping delivery im waiting for - ooohh Mr T man just rang to say he's going to be early and to make sure im in that was nice of him

Good old Mr T. Hope you are signed up for the Tesco Voucher thread? I usually manage to get some money off my orders via the codes on there.

Savvy_sewing

Well I better attempt to tidy up my little space and put some of the cookery books and diaries etc that are all around me, away somewhere.
What time Mr T coming then?

Biggest*of*Mooloos

Last Sat, it was his Bday so LLord's wife didnt want to work it so they asked little old me to hold the fort - Mr T has come and Gone - He's really nice liitle old man - hatting away for england explained th whole in's and ous of veything to me Bless him