We are being evicted, some advice please...... the date has arrived......

beanielou

ampersand's post seconded by me bm.
Take care

Gillianh2

I also echo what Ampersand said:A

You are doing a fantastic job and being a Brilliant Mum...............but you must try and eat properly even if its just a couple of bowls of cereal. You will need all your energy in the coming weeks whether you are in a hostel or your New Home:o I know how difficult it is to eat when you are worrying and on edge but you must try we cant have you ill now can we:rolleyes:
Whenever I am worried and cant sleep or eat (pretty darn often:eek: lol) I have found that snacking on Cornflakes at least keeps that icky sick feeling at bay!LOL I even eat them without anything on them no milk nowt just dry:cool: i know each to his own:rotfl: LOl

I am hoping and keeping everything crossed that you get this house and promise you will try and eat a little something every day.


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SingleSue

Aww Bm, you sound so stressed! You really need to take care of yourself and ensure you eat properly (you have 2 bossy mums on here now or is it 3!). You being run down through not eating and sleeping is not a good place to be (been there, done it and keep thinking about printing the T shirt).

As to Ryan wetting, yes it could be a reaction to all the change going on around him, kids are very receptive to emotional undertones and all the stress may be unsettling him...but at the moment there is nothing you can do about that as you will naturally be extremely stressed, it doesn't make you a bad mum so don't worry and things will improve once he has settled once more..best thing is to try not to make an issue of him going back to trainer pants, it took me until Joe (complex autistic) was 9 to get him out of the nappies at night and nearly 7 during the day due to him being very unsettled with life in general.

Hang in there gal!

ampersand

This morning's belle Bonjour to you and yours bm.
When the nausea kicks in, you are already in a conditioned 'body-learnt' vicious cycle/circle, WHICH YOU MUST BREAK....and can, because it's your body.
If you can just do as Gill says, or have sultanas or something similar handy it will all help. The hyper reaction will worsen if you're ingesting the naughties, rather than the goodies.
I still think you must hammer on about the points, because each failure of the system becomes a weapon in your armoury as time goes by, should there be an Appeal process or similar.
It is good that you can use 'che sera sera' as a technique for looking beyond this situation to a better one, but please don't lose sight of the need to make THEM increasingly aware of you and yours every single day.
Could the children read to Mummy instead? - just once might turn things sweetly around.
You are already a champion in their eyes and the eyes of many here - aiming for a quick and early knock-out round each day with your Housing Dept seems a priority to me.
Blessings to Ryan through the turbulence, as he must perceive it.

blue_monkey_2

Morning everyong,

Another very early morning, got up and have done loads of paperwork, letters, forms, etc.... so just about to start packing my eBay stuff that has been sold! I have aton or ironing as well but have to get up the charity shop this morning and my car is FULL. I woke and thought 'darn, better check that it is open first' (we are still villagey and some places have half or closed days) and that was it, no more sleeping for me!! I figure ther eis no point in lying there with stuff going around and around when can be doing something productive.

The house is an absolute sty and I look around and think 'urgh' but I am not going to leave it in a pit and figure I'll clean it all next week through while I pack. Just hope no-oe wants to come around before then. Mum is putting the house in auction after we have gone but that will be a couple of months so at least that'll give me time to get the cats sorted.

I am going to listen to all of you and try and eat properly, I di understand and appreciate the nagging, really I do, I just have to kick myself up the backside, will have some toast later, I know it is not the best if on WW but I kind of can't be bothered with watching those points right now and I figured I can lose it again afterwards.

Thanks again everyone, you are right, Ryan is probably dealing with it in his ownway too, Mya is having tantrums big time so maybe that is her way (wish it wasn't though, LOL!)

ampersand

I'm surprised that your mother is putting house to auction bm - what she realises will be way down(and still falling) as we all know after these last months.
Rich pickings for some with money to snap property up atm.
But - forgive me, she IS your Mum - reason has not been her strong suit so far.
MAKE THAT TOAST NOW, PLEASE BM - and just sit outside with it and your tea for a five mins. Do nothing else. Just 5 minutes, bm.
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Just went back out to find birds have taken croissant off plate to grass and are fighting over it as they rip it apart.
Don't know if this works (I can hear them back out there now)

Mollymop5

Morning bm.Just wanted you to know I'm still checking in daily and have my fingers crossed that you "win" this house
I have a gas fire in my living room and never use it as the heating from the radiators is enough.you could look into having it temporarally disconnected if you alsdo have a radiator.Just a thought Good luck!

MummyHol

I always find bananas help if i'm feeling a bit low & loose my appetite.

Well done keeping the kids enthusiastic about their hostel-holiday, what a brill idea.

Take some time out today- pick a good book & read in the sunshine. Escapism is a good friend in small doses,

x

nimbo

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big hugs, hope you hera soon...

blue_monkey_2

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh............. still no update. I think it'll be Monday before we hear now. I am checking online but all it does is make me sick with worry and I keep on refreshing but there is no 'rank' displayed.

I've just been 'told off' by the school for leaving ryans scooter down there - again - so now I am telling the kids no scooters to and from school as I cnanot be doing with trying to remember and getting another moaning at. I felt like telling her where she could shove the damn thing and there are loads down there, why single out mine, oh it has his name on. I think it is my choice if I risk it getting nicked anyway. I've too much going on to worry about a scooter for heavens sake. Some people. So that annoyed me - considering that they won;t be scootering for long anyway. You would think they would encourage getting fit on the way to school.

Well, going to do as suggested, sit in the garden with an ice lolly - I do not have any books as I never get time to read them so they are all packed somewhere, LOL, so I'll take my magazines out there instead. I told you this was going to be a loooong week!!