We are being evicted, some advice please...... the date has arrived......

Careful_with_that_Axe

Just wanted to send you extra love and hugs.
If you are still having trouble eating, could you try fruit smoothies? At least you would then be gettng some goodness.
Hope you have some good news soon.
J
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chevalier

I have my fingers crossed that you get something soon.

Just one little thing, your nausea couldn't be for any other reason could it:eek:
chev

blue_monkey_2

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: LOL, oh god Chev, no way :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: , and that is a few screams short that is for sure!! I'd rather go without than take any risks that is 100% certain!!!! I think my husband feels the exact same way!! There is no way I could cope with another child - besides, I have my fishy babies now

I feel better in the evenings and I went and bought some shredded wheat to snack on instead, I am sure it is just hovering over the PC waiting for this info to update. I'd rather not have access to it but it is there so you have to keep on checking don't you. Still, just another few days to go now and at least we will know one way or the other.

chevalier

Sorry I just thought I would suggest it:rolleyes: ! With all the stress I thought you might have forgotten something (ahem).

I hope the cereal went down well. I can't imagine how I would cope with all that you have, so if I owned a hat I would take it off to you!

By the way the idea of turning the hostel going into a holiday in a hostel I thought was absolutely inspired!
chev

blue_monkey_2

LOL, that is the thing - I had forgotten one sometime - i do not even know when - so went to the shops for the first time in years and bought some 'things' (aren't they expensive!!). I politely told my husband a few days before 'that thing is coming nowhere near me as I've messed up my pill'. Then a few days ago he suddenly said 'you've remembered your pill right' and my reply was 'do you really think I'd be letting you do this if I hadn't.....' :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: As I say, I cannot imagine anything worse right now. We would have to buy a new car for a start as I can only get their seats in the back seat!! There is noooooooooooooooooooooo way I am starting all over again when in 5 months time I'll be getting some sort of life back (for 6 hours a day!!) :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

The kids are sooooooo excited about the impending 'holiday' I think they will be more than a ittle disappointed if we do not get there now. I'll have to ask the council to put me in there for a week anyway or book a few nights at the Holiday Inn to keep them happy :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: It was Ryan that started me thinking as he was saying he wanted his suitcase as he wanted to got to a hotel for a holiday and I thought 'great idea' and this is where the 'holiday while we wait for a new house' idea came from. They are really excited about it as we have told them it will be very soon. I really do not think that they will see it as anything but now and it would be great if there are other kids in there too. I did tell them that they would still have to go to school though and that went down well - NOT!! :rotfl:

chevalier

Yes that would be a bit confusing - going on holiday to 'hotel' but still having to go to school!:rotfl: :rotfl:

Don't forget for future reference those 'things' are free at the drs!:D
chev

ampersand

Good morning bm - another beautiful day forecast.
Please take another 'time out' outdoors, with banana or other snack, at some point.
I firmly believe that these moments are rich deposits for the memory bank, which you can haul out when the going gets rough.
PLEASE CALL THE COUNCIL AGAIN. ODD THINGS DO HAPPEN- A PLACE CAN SUDDENLY BECOME AVAILABLE. I know this has happened because someone just happened to be in the right place at the right time.........(not mot, by the way). Your need is registered and recognised - it's not queue-jumping.
Enjoy this weather while it lasts.

Pinkylouloubell

Hi BM,

I really hope you get some good news today, have been following your thread for a while and really admire your strength of managing to hold it all together for your family.

I teach an autistic boy for 3 hours a day and do various activities with him and it can be very tiring at times.
He is a beautiful boy, but it can still drain you.

As you are already doing I would not make any fuss as all over Ryans little accidents, as its all about the "no pressure" approach lol.

Keep strong, and make sure you make a bit of time for you.
You have to be looked after and healthy to in order to keep going for yuor family.

Take care, bug hug.
Pinkyloulou

Pinkylouloubell

ooops, I meant BIG hug.

But I guess a bug hug will do, hehehehehe.
XX

blue_monkey_2

Well, I am sorry to say that I think my children are going to be very disappointed...... it looks like they won;t be packing for the 'hotel' stay after all.

We have a viewing today at 4pm. We are first on the list. That's right...... 1st on the list!! :T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T

I've just walked up the road like this :j :j :j :j :j :j

And I think that everyone who saw me was thinking.....

The HA have confirmed we are 1st on the list, the council lady called me and I told her we knew and we had a viewing today and she told me that if there was any delay on moving in they would help me apply for a stay or Mum could call the bailiff off. Mum has already agreed to call the bailiff off if we got the place and then we would get an extra week or so to move out as the rent and CT is paid up until then.

It still has not sunk in to be honest and I do not think it will until we have the keys in our hand but we are viewing at 4pm so things will seem more real then. If it was aslow day before it'll be even slower now!! I cannot even put into words how I feel to be honest so the smilies above will have to do.

I do not think I would have got though with without the help and support of everyone on this thread. It has been a long road but it looks like the end is in sight and is holding a paintbrush I'll be back later today to confirm everything but I wanted to say a huge and massive thank you to everyone who has supported me along the way in doing this as you have been the ones to help me and pick me up if I fell over. There are not enough words or virtual hugs big enough to be able to say thank you as the words never seem enough.