We are being evicted, some advice please...... the date has arrived......

mumoftwins

Hi BM,

Just want to say good luck for today xx

ampersand

And from me, bm.
It just has to be more 'true to Life' if those with whom you have today's apppointment actually see you with Ryan.
That's a good tone the MP's note has struck, too - re: your daughter requiring her own 'safe' space. I hope he comes through strongly for you, unlike mot's M.P.
I like viva's analogy, too. We know what happens when those two ferals meet!

SingleSue

Hi Blue-monkey

I started reading this thread when I had not registered and was itching to ask you to get your son checked for an ASD (autistic spectrum disorder) as his behaviour was/is so similar to two of my sons who have an ASD diagnosis....fast forward a few pages and I see this has now been done.

I don't have any practical advice regarding the eviction although been there, done it many years ago but with a child with no special needs - eldest is my only 'normal' one! But I do remember it as being an extremely stressful and tiring time, and that was without finding out our child had a special need.

If you ever need advice,support,shoulder to cry on regarding your son etc, please don't hesitate to send me a pm, I may have some strategies to help you cope or deal with his behaviour (I may not either but sometimes a problem shared can make you feel better).

For the record, my middle son aged 11 has a diagnosis of aspergers and my youngest a diagnosis of complex autism.

Hope your day isn't too stressful and you get something...anything sorted.

ampersand

Welcome ss - you've made such a good start with your posts.
Stay with us!
Posters such as yourself make Martin's wonderful site what it is.

Mollymop5

Good luck with today

smashedbooboo

Thinking of you BM. Stay strong. Good luck. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

blue_monkey_2

Had to check in over breakfast to ay hi to everyone. Getting together anything that is possible, copies of letters regarding all the debts we owe to show them the problems we will have in getting through the credit check. Taking photos of all the damage in the house Ryan has done around the house (and mentioning our surprise that they had not shown any interest in checking this before). Going through the homeless/housing stratagy through the notes pulled off the website. Etc... just making sure our backsides are covered for everything they are going to throw at us. Thanks for the additional question viv that is on my list.

Well, I still have a ton of paperwork to sort out so will get on and do that before getting the kids from school.

I am kind of scared and keep on feeling a bit panicky about it all. I am fine then it comes on all of a sudden.

Thank you all so much for your strength and support, I will be back later tonight after the kids are in bed to let you know how everything has gone.

Love and hugs and everything that comes with it. C xx

Careful_with_that_Axe

Good luck today sweetie. I'll be thinking of you.
Am sending you lots of virtual choccies for you to snaffle later on. And virtual coccies have no calories!

:EasterBun

neverdespairgirl

blue_monkey wrote: »

Because of the uncertaintwe face it seems a 'waste' to use a days holiday for something I do not *need* (tooth is not hurting - touch wood now). I guess it is hard to explain really.

I was worried you were in huge pain from your tooth - glad at least that this isn't the case.

blue_monkey wrote: »

but he loves his job and this is important too, you have to have a reason for getting up and going ou to work else you end up resentful (I think, anyway).

Couldn't agree with you more, it's very important.

blue_monkey wrote: »

PS. Guess what is on the TV.....

Spot, in Hebrew.....?

vandanfc

Hi BM

Hope it is a productive meeting. Will be thinking of you.