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suicidal feelings again

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  • You are not alone in this, you now have us lot here ready to listen and help you if we can, you have a family who love you they really would NOT be better off with out you.

    I know its frightening, the horrible sick feeling of dread about bills and paying for stuff,but nothing on this earth is more important than the people who love you. Love really is the only important thing.

    This is just another chapter in your life, not your whole life, you will get through and survive.

    and everyone here will help you.

    take care, hug your kids and your wife.

    xxxxx

    (I know everyone has pretty much siad that but I read your post and had to answer xxx)

    (and now we have cross posted hello!!)
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • im-empty wrote: »
    I'd again just like to thank everyone had a lot to think about reading all the replies and come to thinking what gives me the right to even think of taking my life and leaving all these problems behind for my family to deal with that would be very selfish I'm going to keep coming here and taking all the advise on thank you all.

    And the bump antronella.

    Hope you do keep posting (and bumping this thread) and the support will keep coming x
  • Indeed the help and supports always here im-empty, I'm not too good at the advice, but like to think i'm pretty good at the support, and the offer of a pint and a chat is always there, ok?
    I am one of the 63336.
    His Grace Lord Stunty the Coherent of Deep Throcking

    'It is better to have lived one day as a tiger than a thousand years as a sheep.'
  • bringmeshoes
    bringmeshoes Posts: 2,792 Forumite
    hi
    i dont know if this is of any use as i live in cheshire also. i work for o2 in runcorn and i know we are always taking on, it may not be the best job in the world but it may help with paying off some debts.
    you are already showing your strength by posting on here today, this is the first step for you
    The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about - Oscar Wilde:beer:
    Big sister to Hayley11 and Before Hollywood and adopted daughter of Vikingero
  • jamtart6
    jamtart6 Posts: 8,302 Forumite
    just try and remember you've made the first step. Today is the worst day and things can only get better. If you focus on that during any crisis, and believe you can make things better then that should help to comfort you. Just read the stories on this forum alone and you'll see that with the right support and knowledge you'll be in a position to control your debts and not let them control you. Everyone on here is great and I feel so lucky to know if I end up in debt I now have the knowledge that this forum is here and I'll never be alone. The others are right its only money - you are rich in so many other ways.... best of luck

    :ABeing Thrifty Gifty again this year:A

  • Spirit_2
    Spirit_2 Posts: 5,546 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi, I have just found your thread and on reading it can only say that my heart goes out to you.

    Please take the advice from this board to improve how you feel; see your GP and to talk to the samaritans. Come back and tell us how you get on. We are here for you.

    Spirit
  • izzwizz_2
    izzwizz_2 Posts: 382 Forumite
    Just wondering how you are today. Hope you got some sleep last night.
  • mummum2
    mummum2 Posts: 617 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I've just read your thread and just wanted to add my support. How are you today?
    Long Hauler No: 51
    DMP Mutal Support Thread No: 207
    Proud to be dealing with my debts
    DFD - June '13, aiming for December '12
  • im-empty
    im-empty Posts: 16 Forumite
    Indeed the help and supports always here im-empty, I'm not too good at the advice, but like to think i'm pretty good at the support, and the offer of a pint and a chat is always there, ok?
    That is very nice of you we may well meet soon thank you.:beer:
  • im-empty
    im-empty Posts: 16 Forumite
    mummum2 wrote: »
    I've just read your thread and just wanted to add my support. How are you today?
    I'm ok thank you just been down the bank to cancel a couple of direct debits first step.
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