suicidal feelings again

natanddan1

Hi
Sorry to hear your problems. You will get some fantastic advice from this forum i am sure.

You could also try the following debt counciling charity. They offer more one to one support and do not charge.

They have helped a few people i know who were in serious debt and feeling that taking their own lives seemed to be the only option. They are now changed peopled who have real control over their lives and finances.

https://www.capuk.org/

Please continue to post on here so we can continue to support you.

im-empty

theunknownstuntman wrote: »

I live in Liverpool mate, I'll always meet you for a chat if ever you need one.

Thanks very much for your kind offer.

Need_To_Sort_It

Awe isnt this place just fab!!!

im-empty

Yes this place is great and Martin Lewis what a guy.

silvercar

And bankruptcy would not suite me as we have bought our house but how can i sort out these creditors as i feel we may lose the house because we have nothing coming in and can't pay the repayments anymore.

Just looking at the house situation.

Can you post your house value, outstanding mortgage amount, interest rate, how many repayments you have missed, type of lender.

Is your mortgage repayment or interest only? Do you have mortgage protection insurance? Has your lender written to you about arrears? Are you on a fixed rate deal? Are you allowed payment hoildays? How long have you had the mortgage?

Post some figures and we can see if there is a way forward.

southernscouser

im-empty wrote: »

i have 3 grand kids and 1 on the way and they give me the will to live as well as my wife and kids.

You know what? You are actually a very rich man to have that.

Money, great big houses, material posessions, they're all just bullsh!t things that don't actually matter. What matters is what money can't buy!

Ask yourself if you're prepared to put your family through the worst times of their lives by taking your own? The problems won't be gone, they will be worse. And your family will be left to deal with it all on their own without your help.

Money problems are fixable. I promise you that. Fixing someone who has taken their own life isn't.

Seek professional advice for how you are feeling. That is the most important thing and it's something only you can do to fix.

But when you are ready, have a read of this thread and we'll help you as much as we can with your money problems.

mbaz

Hi - I had to respond to your thread when I saw the title.

I dont think there is any financial situation worth committing suicide over. At the end of the day it is just money - family and health are all that really matters in life. I cant even begin to describe the devastation caused when a family member commits suicide - especially when you then find out it was because of debts. It is something that will haunt those you love for the rest of their lives and nothing can be so bad it is worth causing them that pain.

Please call someone like CCCs who have been fantastic with me and put me on an informal debt management plan and got all interest frozen so I can actually pay off what I borrowed

xxx

Triker

:wave: Hello and welcome, I won't repeat what everyone else on here has said but I will say, take as much time as you need, an hour, a day, one step at a time, don't worry friend, no matter how long this takes we'll help support you. XX

antronella

Bump.... thinking of you.

im-empty

I'd again just like to thank everyone had a lot to think about reading all the replies and come to thinking what gives me the right to even think of taking my life and leaving all these problems behind for my family to deal with that would be very selfish I'm going to keep coming here and taking all the advise on thank you all.

And the bump antronella.