Paying off £37065 unsecured debt by July 2027 while continuing to travel this amazing world

Moneywhizz

Hoping everything is ok with you, been missing your updates. 

biggerpickle

Am guessing you have an awful lot going on but wanted to thank you for the travel info a while back - just been away for the weekend and it was all good fun, there will be more. 

RelievedSheff

Another one sending you best wishes here and hoping all is alright.

LadyWithAPlan

Nintud said:

Guess what, no response to text message and no CM paid in yet. This man is on £72k per year plus state pension. Every damn month he pays in one minute before I can officially complain. It’s so controlling.

im His third wife, and he’s living with prospective wife number four. Wife number two tried to warn her, wanted me to join an ex-wife vendetta! I said no, we need to co-parent civilly (we Co-parent very well), but he pushes me further towards the idea every month!!

wow that ex wife club sounds like a great idea, Disgusting he is doing this

I assume you are looking after your dad, hope life is ok for you and yours.
 However well done on paying off the Very, NW will be next

Humdinger1

Yes, how are you @Nintud? Xx

Nintud

I’m currently in Cyprus visiting my Dad. I’ve been diagnosed with pernicious anemia and have been off work for 6 weeks. I’m constantly exhausted and spend most of my day in bed. I start a course of B12 injections at the end of the month.

debt repayments have stalled until I get my examiner fees in June.

Dad is going downhill and he thinks he won’t make it until the end of the year. I am trying to spend as much time with him as I can. I hope to come out for a week in May and three in July.

 going to India for 12 nights from August 20th and have a weekend booked in Florence and Tuscany for my Birthday in November.

life with pernicious anemia is tiring and dull.

i am dating though, and he is picking me up from the airport on Thursday.

backinbusiness

Offt - a lot on your plate. Just popping on to say my own mother was diagnosed with pernicious anemia in her 50s and had monthly (if I remember correctly B12 injections in her stomach). She was completely revitalised on them - with a definite drop-off towards the end of the month. I hope they provide the same boost for you; meanwhile, be kind to yourself. BiB x 

lucielle

I have to have a B12 injection every 3 months. It does help. 

L

LzzyIsGod

Lovely to hear from you @Nintud hope you feel better soon and there's a more positive outlook for your dad xxx sending hugs

BrimfulofSascha

Just found your diary and read along with interest.

I'm a bit of a travel buff myself, and we have similar debt levels and incomes, as well as being a single parent with a teen. Trying to balance adventures with debt paying is hard so I admire your persistence. I'm currently trying to balance the budget for a long distance hiking trip to the Balkans, and had a lovely weekend in Copenhagen with DD in February. Our current big budget plan is Costa Rica summer 2026 to celebrate the end of GCSE's

I am sorry to hear about your father's ill health and your own diagnosis. I hope you are getting the support you need too.

Love and light
Sascha