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  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,925 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear about the diagnosis.

    Yes, children always a blessing in these situations

    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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  • amber03
    amber03 Posts: 1,492 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear about your family news. Australia will always be there when you are ready. GK’ds are a wonderful distraction. Sending hugs to you.

    :j Debtfree and and staying that way.:j3-6 month emergency fund, No.61 £140.00
  • maggiem
    maggiem Posts: 2,061 Forumite
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    Sorry to read about the diagnosis for someone in your family. Remember to take care of yourself too.

  • Sunshine_girl2
    Sunshine_girl2 Posts: 3,275 Forumite
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    Life is very busy and will be for the foreseeable. There have been visits from MacMillan nurses and the community care team. Visit from the GP next week , the family members doctors have been very good so far. Power of Attorney's have been registered with the doctors and the hospital. The diagnosis has been confirmed by the hospital doctors and no treatment is available. I have become very good at sorting out medication with chemists who have also been brilliant . It does help that the chemist delivery driver is a family friend. One of the things I am appreciating is that family member lives so close to the doctors , chemist and major hospital. I haven't been home much this week in the daytime apart from my WFH day , but I am having tomorrow off so to speak. Other members of the family have done their day at helping out which is a big help to me. In being at family members I have enjoyed watching birds in the garden and checking on all the flowers coming up .
    I have still been able to go to RHS for a walk and coffee with my friend, go into school on Friday morning and am of shortly to my walking group. My exercise minutes have been vastly improved owing to all the extra activity I am doing which will be going on for weeks .
    I am having very vivid dreams at the moment, maybe that is to do with stress . Anyway the DGC keep me smiling and another blessing is my family have all rallied round to help for which I am forever grateful.
    As a side note my son's house sale finally completed after 13 months , which is one less worry for me .

    Best get dressed , can't go walking in my pjs.

    Life is an adventure, never stop exploring.

  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,925 Forumite
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    Glad you have been able to to have a walk in a lovely space. I know how important that will be to you.

    You have a wonderful, supportive, family and they will help keep you going. Take care.

    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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    Debt Free (again) 25/07/2025
  • milann
    milann Posts: 11,767 Forumite
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    I’m glad ds house sale has gone through.
    Children are definitely the best medicine to help you through this difficult time. Glad you’re still managing to get to school and walks ❤️

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  • Sunshine_girl2
    Sunshine_girl2 Posts: 3,275 Forumite
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    Happy Mother's Day to everyone who reads my diary.

    Life is an adventure, never stop exploring.

  • Faith76
    Faith76 Posts: 173 Forumite
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    Happy Mothers Day Sunshine_girl2

  • Sunshine_girl2
    Sunshine_girl2 Posts: 3,275 Forumite
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    Life is still very busy , I am only at home at nighttime. Caring for someone is very tough and I have respect for anyone doing this .

    Family member is spending more time in bed now and the stairs are keeping me fit as I don’t have any .

    Managed to get my hair cut this morning but will be back later .
    Payday today so need to do the money shuffle before I forget .
    At least the sun is shining today .

    Life is an adventure, never stop exploring.

  • maggiem
    maggiem Posts: 2,061 Forumite
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    Sorry to read this @Sunshine_girl2 . Caring for someone is very tough both physically and emotionally so please be as kind as you can be to yourself. Thinking of you. Hope you get to enjoy the sunshine today

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