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  • Thanks SS, well I did all I set out to do today and a little more, I have more to do over the next few days, like get around the site and get my shopping list sorted, I have got the princely sum of £20 a week for the 3 of us, but thats fine, I'll do it somehow.

    I was wondering, now I have sorted out the mortgage, whats the worse anyone can do to me?
  • Hugs for you - you've done the hardest part by facing it & now you enter 2008 a new woman on a new path! In control rather than being controlled! HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • I was wondering, now I have sorted out the mortgage, whats the worse anyone can do to me?

    Put you over their knee and spank you. :D

    Sorry was day dreaming again! :p;)


    You might get harrassing phone calls from DCA's etc. Just tell them you only wish to correspond with them in writing if it gets too much. There is some jargon on here somewhere about the acts they have to follow regarding harrasment etc. We can cross that bridge though if it happens.

    You will probably get defaulted on your credit file which will remain on your credit file for 6 years but I can't think of much else.


    I would urge you to try and find the money for your water bill though. Get into another debt just to pay a different one off isn't the way to go. If it means the DCA's get £10 a month less and the water bill gets paid then so be it. :)
  • Thanks, the guy at the mortgage place also advised me to pay water and that's why he didn't take all of the £90 left over only £50. He said although they wouldn't cut me off they would reduce my supply

    Had to change my landline number ages ago - hence a BT contract still running for another 3 months - 9 calls a day starting t 7 am ending 11pm from one of them, I was deleted - all for £800 debt

    Soory I am really tied and cant think - whats DCA please?

    So these folks can take me to court for CCJs but as long as I pay my pound they wont send bailiffs or anything?
  • DCA = Debt Collection Agency

    As for CCJ's. I can't promise they won't. But I'd be surprised if they do. You are showing a willingness to pay the debt back and as long as you make regular payments I see no reason why they would go to the courts.

    They normally only take this route if someone isn't paying. :)
  • As long as you keep paying your creditors you won't get ballifs at your door.

    In the worst case scenario you would know it's happening anyway. They can't turn up without a court order and you would know this was happening.

    Sometimes DCA's send representatives (they like to call themselves debt collectors) to your house to try and get you to pay more. They have absolutely NO power at all. They do it to try and scare you into paying more. If they knock, tell 'em to go play with the traffic and if they don't leave you alone you'll call the police and get them done for harrasment. Again you'll know they are coming. They normally post something to you telling you when they are coming. But as you're paying regularly again I doubt they will come out. :)
  • Here is my new budget sheet

    Income

    £1201

    Outgoings
    Mortgage 558
    council tax 85
    gas 50
    elec 55
    water 34
    tv 13
    house life car ins - 97
    orange 40
    Fuel 100
    food 90
    sky 21
    bt 30
    debts 11
    payg 10

    £1194

    A bit better isnt it, am going to work out how much the total debt with orange would be if I just didnt pay, mind you I could leave that until I see just how hard it is to live on £20 food.

    Oh I forgot to say, the mortgage man picked up straight away that I would struggle to pay January's payment due on the 4th so he said he would ask the powers that be not to charge me alate payemtn so I will be able to pay them all of januray payment (plus £50 arrears) by 15th Jan, then there will be enough for the proper full payment on the 4th Feb, that was good of them wasnt it?He even asked if I had food in bless him
  • See what happens when you start taking back control. :D

    What are the arrears on the gas and electric and how much extra are you paying a month towards them?

    Can you break down the insurances? When are they due for renewal and when was the last time you shopped around?

    Whats the score with BT? Are you in arrears with them? If not look at reducing this. Check out the phones board again for cost lowering tips.

    What Sky package are you on and are you tied into a contract?

    Also are you buying your petrol from the cheapest pumps? Check out http://www.petrolprices.com/ for the cheapest petrol in your area. It's free to sign up. :)

    And don't forget to sign up to Quidco! There are daily clicks which only earn you 30p odd but over a year it adds up. The same for topcashback. :)
  • As long as you keep paying your creditors you won't get ballifs at your door.

    If they knock, tell 'em to go play with the traffic and if they don't leave you alone you'll call the police and get them done for harrasment. Again you'll know they are coming. They normally post something to you telling you when they are coming. But as you're paying regularly again I doubt they will come out. :)

    Cool, there's tons of trailers carting horse manure around here
  • See what happens when you start taking back control. :D

    What are the arrears on the gas and electric and how much extra are you paying a month towards them?

    Arrears are about £200 between them (havent got a current bill to hand) and they are taking £20 a month each - so will be done with that in May
    Can you break down the insurances? When are they due for renewal and when was the last time you shopped around?
    Life (2 policies for the next 18 years) £51 for £20,000 terminal illnes and £180000 life cover. Cant give them up cos A- I wont get insurance now i am bipolar and B- If i pop my clogs while the kids are young then I am the only one who can provide for them and any guardian thwy will have (since no Dad)
    Whats the score with BT? Are you in arrears with them? If not look at reducing this. Check out the phones board again for cost lowering tips.
    No no arrears, on the day and evening free calls thing, I was with someone else and needed a number change but I had to go back to BT to do it and they signed me up for a year,
    What Sky package are you on and are you tied into a contract?
    Dont know the name of the package but its ony 6 months old so am stuck with that for a bit
    Also are you buying your petrol from the cheapest pumps? Check out http://www.petrolprices.com/ for the cheapest petrol in your area. It's free to sign up. :)
    Yes Tesco is still the cheapest around here.
    And don't forget to sign up to Quidco! There are daily clicks which only earn you 30p odd but over a year it adds up. The same for topcashback. :)
    Yes I am going to be getting stuck into this site, probably after tomorrow, I have been sorting everything else out and have only kept these threads I am on open so I can keep writing.

    I did some surveys last night thanks to In Search of Me and Keren kindly explained Quidco to me, so now I have gotten a load of out of the way I can get on and get money making and cost cuttin underway
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