Anyway out of this for me?

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angelflower wrote: »

hey ho...thought things had been a wee bit quiet on your thread of late and thought no news is good news. It is really annoying when people dont follow through on promises like employer, csa and your cheque!!

So what else have you been up to in last few days?

Someone just recommended selling books, dvds etc on play.com and in the past day Ive made more money on there than anywhere so far this month!! First 10 items have no fees!! My Ghost dvd sold for about £10!!! Would be luckly to get £1 on ebay. If you have anything left LOL you could try there??

You got any nice plans for the weekend?

Hiya hun, well tonight I went to my local for a birthday party, its a very quiet village and got to meet some of the people I have lived amongst for the last 9 years, that was nice and being the newbie I had a few drinks bought for me, felt very guilty by not returning the favour but I didnt stay long enough rofl!

Play sounds great, I wasted a lot of time on ebay but still I have learned now to research items.

I have still got lots of books here I could do with shifting

List for Saturday

- List items on Play.Com

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Hey did you notice my crossing out on my mortgage arrears, thats thanks to you lot advising me on what I should pay and what I shouldnt and I made full payment plus £50 this month (albeit a little late) instead of the nothing I thought I would pay- good eh?

angelflower_2

thats great Frankie and plan to follow suit this month. (It will actually poss show as going up a little but will have paid this months plus arrears...at the moment its showing a little less than 2 months but thats cause there is a part payment in this month.) As long as I keep it under 4, they wont evict me so just plugging away!!

That sounds great. Getting to know new people is difficult at the best of times but when you are going threw all this...must have been both challenging & fun.

Anyway just run a bath so off to languish in that for an hour and watch some Buffy. Man, cant wait to get sleeping patterns back to normal!!

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I think I will follow suit AF, I am worn out and my sleep is all over the gaff too.

So we are both doing great with our mortgages hun, well done us lol

DisillusionedAnna

Hi Frankie love the name

Hope your keep okayish am back online despite it being on my pals computer....well done on the steps youvve done so far..little steps soon become big uns...will type a better post later today am of to bed just looking on here, MAKES ME REALISE iM LUCKY IN MANY WAYS

Hugs keep up the good work

Anna xx

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I will Anna, nice to see you :-) Nite nite.

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Hello everyone thought I would give you quick update.

My mind has been all over the place, had a bit of a flip in the week which sent my psychiatric team running for the hills, ok it was a major flip lol but I saw the shrink, he increased my anti depressant and mood stabilisers, gave me some low dose valium for when things get 'a bit too much' but have managed without them for 2 days now, I should rattle with all these meds!!!

I am still living within my means which is very hard but I am doing it, the kids are great and are helping in all ways possible bless em.

There has been no money from CSA but I have had lots of dealings with them and now thanks to advice form the Child Support forum, the ball appears to be rolling to doing something about the employer, but we shall wait an see, keep everything crossed for me eh?

I am panicking a bit cos its almost 1 month now since I sent my £1 token payment letters to creditors and I haven't heard back from a few of them. I am particularly worried about the biggie £22k ish loan, I dont like it when they are quiet and I am very worried about them going for CCJ and getting it, then a charging order. I just wish I knew one way or another

Thats it really, onwards we go eh?

Hows everyone here doing?

Keeping_Positive

Hello:hello:

Glad you got through your "flip" without causing any damage to your budget.

Even if they get a charging order that doesnt mean that they will make you sell the house.

gilligansyle

Glad to see you are 'managing' to keep within budget. Remember well your very first posts, and you've come an awfully long way since then. Keep updating on your progress, particularly with the nasty CSA.

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Yes I am managing on day to day things, its the unexpected thats the hard bit.

My son came home from school with only one shoe the other day, hijinx in class etc cutting a long story short I had to ask a relative with a credit card to buy him some new shoes cos I dont have the spare cash!! Its humiliating and frustrating.

So living day to day is ok but a pair of shoes made me realise that I am stuffed if anything crops up and some days I just cant help but think 'what's it all about?' and I have no answers.