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Redemption - The journey of a recovering gambling addict.

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  • Have a lovely Christmas with your family! It's not about presents really, just enjoy the time spent with your kids - our eldest is so excited, it's just the best when they're this age! 
  • Well done you're doing amazing. Whilst it's nice to spend money on people your wife is correct to reign you in. Maybe for next year set yourself a budget for each person. 
    *Dad loan - £5300 - £7200
    *Virgin Credit Card - £3552.50 - £0
    *Natwest - £1828.35 -£0.00

    Barclaycard - £2315.25 - £0.00

    Creation Finance - £960.32 £840
    *Total debt - £8040/£11641.17*


    Savings
    *Savings Buffer - £100/£1500
    *Emergency Fund - £1500/£1500


    New diary- https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6474943/the-three-cs-coffee-clothes-credit-cards/
  • You are doing amazing, I think it is so important to share the ups and downs, helps others to realise that it is not a simple change to be made. Incredible work, I hope you and the family have a wonderful Christmas :)
  • mark55man
    mark55man Posts: 8,209 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    well done and good tidings for the holiday season - stay strong - you got this.
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • alt80
    alt80 Posts: 4,641 Forumite
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    Have a lovely Christmas with your family! It's not about presents really, just enjoy the time spent with your kids - our eldest is so excited, it's just the best when they're this age! 
    I couldn’t agree more with this. The best Christmases we’ve had have involved lower spending. Keep on the right path you’re doing brilliantly.

    Have a great break, Merry Christmas.
  • Boxing Day 

    Brings back many gambling stories. Highs and Low’s. 

    I’ve found it hard to access my support group over the festive period. Staying at our in-laws till Saturday and quite tricky to get online. 

    Gambling hasn’t been on my mind but often when I have a few moments to think the memories come back. 

    Plan is to have a chilled day and hopefully get out for a forest walk / bike ride with my boys. 

    Might also look at YNAB to see if it’s better than my google sheets. 

    LG 
    Gambling Addict - Acting now before it's too late. Gambling losses well over 25k. 

    Current Situation Started Posting in Apil 24:
    Unsecured Personal Debt - July 2025
    Natwest CC 0% - £3000 (Cleared November 2024)
    Lloyds CC 0% £4500 - £900
    Barclaycard CC 0% £12,567 - £7700

    11/6/24 - 17 MonthsGamble Free - Longest in years. Gambling is an illness. Seek help. It is not worth your life. 
  • alt80 said:
    Have a lovely Christmas with your family! It's not about presents really, just enjoy the time spent with your kids - our eldest is so excited, it's just the best when they're this age! 
    I couldn’t agree more with this. The best Christmases we’ve had have involved lower spending. Keep on the right path you’re doing brilliantly.

    Have a great break, Merry Christmas.
    Absolutely mate. We’ve got a lot from Facebook marketplace and kept adult parents very minimal 
    Gambling Addict - Acting now before it's too late. Gambling losses well over 25k. 

    Current Situation Started Posting in Apil 24:
    Unsecured Personal Debt - July 2025
    Natwest CC 0% - £3000 (Cleared November 2024)
    Lloyds CC 0% £4500 - £900
    Barclaycard CC 0% £12,567 - £7700

    11/6/24 - 17 MonthsGamble Free - Longest in years. Gambling is an illness. Seek help. It is not worth your life. 
  • mark55man said:
    well done and good tidings for the holiday season - stay strong - you got this.
    Thank you 
    Gambling Addict - Acting now before it's too late. Gambling losses well over 25k. 

    Current Situation Started Posting in Apil 24:
    Unsecured Personal Debt - July 2025
    Natwest CC 0% - £3000 (Cleared November 2024)
    Lloyds CC 0% £4500 - £900
    Barclaycard CC 0% £12,567 - £7700

    11/6/24 - 17 MonthsGamble Free - Longest in years. Gambling is an illness. Seek help. It is not worth your life. 
  • You are doing amazing, I think it is so important to share the ups and downs, helps others to realise that it is not a simple change to be made. Incredible work, I hope you and the family have a wonderful Christmas :)
    Thanks, plenty of ups and downs to share. 

    Merry Christmas 
    Gambling Addict - Acting now before it's too late. Gambling losses well over 25k. 

    Current Situation Started Posting in Apil 24:
    Unsecured Personal Debt - July 2025
    Natwest CC 0% - £3000 (Cleared November 2024)
    Lloyds CC 0% £4500 - £900
    Barclaycard CC 0% £12,567 - £7700

    11/6/24 - 17 MonthsGamble Free - Longest in years. Gambling is an illness. Seek help. It is not worth your life. 
  • FootyFanDan
    FootyFanDan Posts: 1,683 Forumite
    Sixth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Hope you and the family had a really good xmas 🎅 
    I think the way you share both the ups and downs is a great thing, you must be so proud of your progress. You are inspiring others with your journey too.
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