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Redemption - The journey of a recovering gambling addict.
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Have a lovely Christmas with your family! It's not about presents really, just enjoy the time spent with your kids - our eldest is so excited, it's just the best when they're this age!
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Well done you're doing amazing. Whilst it's nice to spend money on people your wife is correct to reign you in. Maybe for next year set yourself a budget for each person.*Dad loan - £5300 - £7200
*Virgin Credit Card - £3552.50 - £0
*Natwest - £1828.35 -£0.00
Barclaycard - £2315.25 - £0.00
Creation Finance - £960.32 £840
*Total debt - £8040/£11641.17*
Savings
*Savings Buffer - £100/£1500
*Emergency Fund - £1500/£1500
New diary- https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6474943/the-three-cs-coffee-clothes-credit-cards/1 -
You are doing amazing, I think it is so important to share the ups and downs, helps others to realise that it is not a simple change to be made. Incredible work, I hope you and the family have a wonderful Christmas1
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well done and good tidings for the holiday season - stay strong - you got this.I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
Smiling and waving and looking so fine1 -
FacelessNumber said:Have a lovely Christmas with your family! It's not about presents really, just enjoy the time spent with your kids - our eldest is so excited, it's just the best when they're this age!
Have a great break, Merry Christmas.2 -
Boxing Day
Brings back many gambling stories. Highs and Low’s.I’ve found it hard to access my support group over the festive period. Staying at our in-laws till Saturday and quite tricky to get online.Gambling hasn’t been on my mind but often when I have a few moments to think the memories come back.Plan is to have a chilled day and hopefully get out for a forest walk / bike ride with my boys.Might also look at YNAB to see if it’s better than my google sheets.LGGambling Addict - Acting now before it's too late. Gambling losses well over 25k.Current Situation Started Posting in Apil 24:Unsecured Personal Debt - July 2025Natwest CC 0% - £3000 (Cleared November 2024)
Lloyds CC 0% £4500 - £900
Barclaycard CC 0% £12,567 - £7700
11/6/24 - 17 MonthsGamble Free - Longest in years. Gambling is an illness. Seek help. It is not worth your life.1 -
alt80 said:FacelessNumber said:Have a lovely Christmas with your family! It's not about presents really, just enjoy the time spent with your kids - our eldest is so excited, it's just the best when they're this age!
Have a great break, Merry Christmas.Gambling Addict - Acting now before it's too late. Gambling losses well over 25k.Current Situation Started Posting in Apil 24:Unsecured Personal Debt - July 2025Natwest CC 0% - £3000 (Cleared November 2024)
Lloyds CC 0% £4500 - £900
Barclaycard CC 0% £12,567 - £7700
11/6/24 - 17 MonthsGamble Free - Longest in years. Gambling is an illness. Seek help. It is not worth your life.2 -
mark55man said:well done and good tidings for the holiday season - stay strong - you got this.Gambling Addict - Acting now before it's too late. Gambling losses well over 25k.Current Situation Started Posting in Apil 24:Unsecured Personal Debt - July 2025Natwest CC 0% - £3000 (Cleared November 2024)
Lloyds CC 0% £4500 - £900
Barclaycard CC 0% £12,567 - £7700
11/6/24 - 17 MonthsGamble Free - Longest in years. Gambling is an illness. Seek help. It is not worth your life.2 -
Aimingforthegoodlife said:You are doing amazing, I think it is so important to share the ups and downs, helps others to realise that it is not a simple change to be made. Incredible work, I hope you and the family have a wonderful ChristmasMerry ChristmasGambling Addict - Acting now before it's too late. Gambling losses well over 25k.Current Situation Started Posting in Apil 24:Unsecured Personal Debt - July 2025Natwest CC 0% - £3000 (Cleared November 2024)
Lloyds CC 0% £4500 - £900
Barclaycard CC 0% £12,567 - £7700
11/6/24 - 17 MonthsGamble Free - Longest in years. Gambling is an illness. Seek help. It is not worth your life.3 -
Hope you and the family had a really good xmas 🎅
I think the way you share both the ups and downs is a great thing, you must be so proud of your progress. You are inspiring others with your journey too.2
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