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Retirees what is your typical day

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  • sgx2000
    sgx2000 Posts: 524 Forumite
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    edited 1 April 2024 at 1:43PM
    "Sorry kids"......lol

    A parents role is to make sure your kids are self sufficient .........

    There will be massive problems in 30 years.
    Half the population will inherit houses
    The rest will live in relative poverty
  • SouthCoastBoy
    SouthCoastBoy Posts: 1,084 Forumite
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    sgx2000 said:
    "Sorry kids"......lol

    A parents role is to make sure your kids are self sufficient .........

    There will be massive problems in 30 years.
    Half the population will inherit houses
    The rest will live in relative poverty
    I think it is already happening. 
    It's just my opinion and not advice.
  • Albermarle
    Albermarle Posts: 27,875 Forumite
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    A week in Devon in January … 3 weeks in India last month … Paris a couple of weeks ago … northern France in April … the northern belle a bit later in the month… Austria and Switzerland in May/June … sorry, kids, we’re spending it on us! Add in the bits of paid consultancy work and the many more bits of charity work (as in, it ain’t all me, me, me) and there are few days that are the same.  The weeds in the garden are having a whale of a time!

    It won’t last, as age and health will inevitably get in the way … hopefully, not for a while. We saved long and hard for this phase of our lives, so grabbing it while we can!
    I do not know how long you have been retired, but from what I have read ( and felt it a bit myself )that for many people the initial burst of holidays, DIY projects etc starts to wane in attraction after a couple of years.
    Then you start searching for a bit more purpose, or maybe just prefer sitting with your feet up !

    Everybody is different of course but apparently this two year thing is quite common.


  • Albermarle
    Albermarle Posts: 27,875 Forumite
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    Sea_Shell said:
    Live to loaf 😉😁😎😇
    The Dutch concept of NIKSEN has been in the news recently. Clearly you are an avid follower !
  • saucer
    saucer Posts: 500 Forumite
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    A week in Devon in January … 3 weeks in India last month … Paris a couple of weeks ago … northern France in April … the northern belle a bit later in the month… Austria and Switzerland in May/June … sorry, kids, we’re spending it on us! Add in the bits of paid consultancy work and the many more bits of charity work (as in, it ain’t all me, me, me) and there are few days that are the same.  The weeds in the garden are having a whale of a time!

    It won’t last, as age and health will inevitably get in the way … hopefully, not for a while. We saved long and hard for this phase of our lives, so grabbing it while we can!
    I do not know how long you have been retired, but from what I have read ( and felt it a bit myself )that for many people the initial burst of holidays, DIY projects etc starts to wane in attraction after a couple of years.
    Then you start searching for a bit more purpose, or maybe just prefer sitting with your feet up !

    Everybody is different of course but apparently this two year thing is quite common.


    Although DIY and travel look attractive from the perspective of being someone a couple of years from retiring (taking nothing from granted), I think that meaningful activity is going to be key to happiness. I’m sure that will mean different things to different people. 
  • sgx2000
    sgx2000 Posts: 524 Forumite
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    A week in Devon in January … 3 weeks in India last month … Paris a couple of weeks ago … northern France in April … the northern belle a bit later in the month… Austria and Switzerland in May/June … sorry, kids, we’re spending it on us! Add in the bits of paid consultancy work and the many more bits of charity work (as in, it ain’t all me, me, me) and there are few days that are the same.  The weeds in the garden are having a whale of a time!

    It won’t last, as age and health will inevitably get in the way … hopefully, not for a while. We saved long and hard for this phase of our lives, so grabbing it while we can!
    I do not know how long you have been retired, but from what I have read ( and felt it a bit myself )that for many people the initial burst of holidays, DIY projects etc starts to wane in attraction after a couple of years.
    Then you start searching for a bit more purpose, or maybe just prefer sitting with your feet up !

    Everybody is different of course but apparently this two year thing is quite common.


    There is a TED Talk on youtube....
    I thinks its called the 4 stages of retirement....
    Interesting insight on the psychological aspects of retirement
  • Sea_Shell
    Sea_Shell Posts: 10,025 Forumite
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    Sea_Shell said:
    Live to loaf 😉😁😎😇
    The Dutch concept of NIKSEN has been in the news recently. Clearly you are an avid follower !
    I had to Google that.

    But yes, it has a certain appeal 😉

    Like the Seven Dwarfs, we're "busy doing nothing"
    How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)
  • sgx2000
    sgx2000 Posts: 524 Forumite
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    How do you actually do nothing?

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