Buying a little piece of Middle England; Manifesting my way to mortgage free.

KeepOnKnitting

I really hope everything gets sorted at your work. I don't for a second think you should have to put up with the treatment you are getting from that student, but I also really hope that something can be done to help him, as I can only imagine what is happening away from school to make him behave like that. Fingers crossed for a good outcome for everyone.

debtfreewannabe321

KeepOnKnitting said:

I really hope everything gets sorted at your work. I don't for a second think you should have to put up with the treatment you are getting from that student, but I also really hope that something can be done to help him, as I can only imagine what is happening away from school to make him behave like that. Fingers crossed for a good outcome for everyone.

Yes this is why we've all persevered because we know exactly what's going on and it's quite sad. Oddly he doesn't come from a violent household which is what I initially thought watching his behaviour. Instead it's just a sad story of feeling like an outcast. I think he's lonely and lost and that's why he acts out. He keeps pretending to be someone he's not to fit in.

 As sad as it is I can't excuse his behaviour anymore when he's made three of us feel intimidated now and fearful of what he might do. 

debtfreewannabe321

Gawd what a stressful morning. my nerves are shot to pieces and I'm ready to go home already. Two hours left after lunch I guess, so I can do this ....but am I glad it's the weekend after work. 

I've cashed out some money on surveys. I've also done another £10 survey so have £20 almost pending. £6 paid out already 🙏🏻 small gratitudes... 

beanielou

Sorry that you have had such a stressful morning. 

debtfreewannabe321

The working week is over. Thank effing god. This afternoon which should have been quiet and nondescript nothingness of a math lesson and a social turned into me breaking up a huge fight, writing statements and calling security 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ someone please pass me a very large G&T and come and cook my dinner for me 😭.

Just paid last MOP across for the month, so January final is £103.27. If I didn't have a mortgage I would not be working or at least I would be very choosy with my job. This job I have now spurs me on to pay it down. I need to make a better plan on paying it down quicker. I can't deal with this for another twenty years 🙈

Baldybear

Sorry to hear about streasful job, full respect to anyone that works with children, hope you have a restful weekend.

Also wanted to say a big thank you for sharing your story it was great and amazing how far you have come, what an inspiration.  Also thank you for the book recommendation will be picking that one up to look at as looks very helpful 😊

KajiKita

You are a very strong and kind person. Your employers are lucky to have you! 

I hope you get to have restful weekend and find some joy within it 😊❤️

KK

debtfreewannabe321

Baldybear said:

Sorry to hear about streasful job, full respect to anyone that works with children, hope you have a restful weekend.

Also wanted to say a big thank you for sharing your story it was great and amazing how far you have come, what an inspiration.  Also thank you for the book recommendation will be picking that one up to look at as looks very helpful 😊

Thank you & I hope you have a good weekend too 🙏

debtfreewannabe321

KajiKita said:

You are a very strong and kind person. Your employers are lucky to have you! 

I hope you get to have restful weekend and find some joy within it 😊❤️

KK

Thank you I will soon find out if employer's think they are lucky to have me in my probation meeting next week! especially after I start complaining about my Friday! Ha!

debtfreewannabe321

Well today has been a spendy day. Most things were planned spends though- like bits for the front room DIY, and also a rug we were after (we picked up two and will take one back). Also stopped at a Toby and had lunch, I was feeling dizzy and nauseous and DP was hungry too so a bit of a payday/ date lunch treat. I also popped into town and got a very cheap tracksuit for lounging about in at home. I used to have a set but I ended up getting paint all over them and they eventually got binned.....so....must not paint in the new set! 

ExH is a *insert whatever horrid name you can think of here that is appropriate*. He has new GF and all of a sudden he has a course that he must attend all the way through half term. What rotten luck huh...? That is of course assuming he is telling the truth which is highly unlikely knowing him. I'm going to assume instead he's taking his GF away. That is far more likely to be true as I've seen this pattern play out a hundred times before. In fact I had an inkling this would happen so I asked DD to check and see if their dad was picking them up in half term and ooooo no he can't now. Glad I know now rather than later so can make some plans. So...aside from the opticians, dentists that are already booked in half term I have said to DP why doesn't he take DS to a dry ski slope to have a go. Now that I have confirmation he's definitely on the trip after it was all confused (I think I said this already?!) I thought why not have a go first. DP loves skiing so he's more than happy to do this with DS. I am terrified of heights so have opted to not do it and passed the baton to DP. Instead me and DD will have a day trip out to maybe Meadowhall, maybe somewhere else for cinema, lunch and shopping trip. We will have fun regardless of idiot ex dropping the kids for the latest bit of skirt. Twit. 

Anyway enough exH bashing. I won't waste any more energy on that (for now)....
DP is finishing off some jobs in the front room as I type, so I am up in the bedroom and OMG at DS music it is so loud and horrible and bangy no wonder kids are so angry these days. <<right after screaming at him once again to turn that XXXX down it's quieter now>> right off to do a study that popped up!