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  • twiggy86
    twiggy86 Posts: 2,683 Forumite
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    So today was a good news/ bad news day! Good news - I’ve been discharged from jury service which means I can go back to work and getting paid! Bad news - I’ve been discharged from jury service and now don’t get to hear it all! There was new evidence uncovered which is leading to significant delays and so they discharged us all and will start the trial with a new jury next year! Boss is overjoyed!

    Todays bits and bobs…
    • Make lunch to take to work 
    • Go to work for the morning as wasn’t needed in court until this afternoon 
    • Had hoped to update my spreadsheet while I was there but didn’t have a chance - however now I’m back to normal, I can do it any time
    • Have a friend coming over for dinner tonight so been to the shop to get a few bits - main reason she’s coming is to use the shower as her boiler has packed up (good job dad has fixed it!)
    • Pop to cheapest local place for petrol
    • Snap receipts in app 
    Dad has been here again doing things and was on the phone telling me all the other bits he’s got planned! He’s amazing but a bit overwhelming at times - bless him! 

    Right need to do a quick bit of crochet before my friend gets here!
    Debt as at 5 June 2023 - £15,600.89
    Current debt - £5,555.00
    Total paid off - £10,045.89 (64% paid off)
  • Good news indeed you can go back to work, but that's a bit mean leaving you with a cliffhanger

    Lovely you can help your friend out, and that your home is now all yours to have people round as you like!

    Your Dad must be so pleased ex is now gone, indulge him in wanting to make things nice and proper for you x
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  • foxgloves
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    Bah to the budget mystery, @twiggy86. It's so annoying, isn't it, when one has budgeted carefully. I massively overthought the cause of my recent extra money. I should have checked the bills & outgoings spreadsheet more thoroughly as the error was perfectly visible. Let's hope that £20 pops up somewhere & it is an accounting discrepancy rather than an actual shortage. 
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  • foxgloves
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    Yay to finding the 'missing' money. My budget check-in went the other way today as I had £7 too much, but I don't intend combing through everything. If it is still there on my next Big Budget Day, I'll bung it into the Meow Fund towards Soot & Ash's new scratching posts.
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  • Glad everything is going well for you @twiggy86 :) Onwards and upwards!
  • twiggy86
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    We won at netball last night! That's two nights in a row! (We don't win very often - but always have fun!) I also managed to borrow a few green options from my friend last night for the funeral tomorrow.

    I was meant to be meeting a friend in town tonight after work but I finally caught the cold that everyone has had, so may give it a miss. If I do go, I will drive and drink coke so won't be expensive. Because of said cold, I texted a friend (in her 70s) that I was meant to be going for lunch with on Sunday - we have decided to re-schedule for the new year rather than her catch it just before Christmas. Which is probably a good thing as I've had a busy week and so haven't managed to make much progress on the crochet dragon! 

    Enough waffle - on to today's bits and bobs...

    • Make lunch to take to work - plus brought my honey and lemon! 
    • Post something to my best friend on way to work (her parents weren't going to see her again before Christmas) 
    • Fingers crossed, work on present at lunch 
    • Print a free pattern at work - a mini Xmas jumper to put on my tree to use up end of yarn (although my tree is still actually in the loft!) 
    • Parents are at mine today doing some sort of diy/ cleaning! I've got to the stage of just leaving them too it! I did message last night to ask what I owe them for any materials dad has bought so far - so kindly they've said not to worry about it as it only little bits 
    • Not sure what to have for dinner - may just have simple soup and sour dough! 
    • If I don't go anywhere tonight I may paint some clay ornaments I made last weekend 
    I can't think of anything else at the moment!
    Debt as at 5 June 2023 - £15,600.89
    Current debt - £5,555.00
    Total paid off - £10,045.89 (64% paid off)
  • twiggy86
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    Back after a very quiet and low-spend weekend -  I didn't go out Friday in the end as felt pretty rubbish. Funeral went well, although I found it harder than I thought as I think it released all my bottled up feelings. So been feeling quite down since.

    I'm usually very festive but don't feel it this year and I have been having an internal argument on whether or not its worth putting up my Christmas decorations but I have decided that I will. My dad was at mine this morning and I asked him to leave the loft ladder down so that I can get the decorations down later (I'm "vertically challenged" and so can't reach the ladder myself!) Hopefully that will lift my spirits. 

    Today's bits and bobs:

    • Make lunch to take to work 
    • Update spreadsheet with the few spends from the weekend 
    • Work on present at lunch (made some good progress at the weekend!)
    • Have a look into a Christmas present I'm planning - possibly an escape room - will have a look on Group0n for a deal 
    • Get Christmas decorations down from loft - plus wrapping paper to avoid buying any unnecessarily 
    • Speak to dad about door - he said he can't repair the one for the spare room but can get a new one for £64. I think I also want a door on the living room to help keep the heat in 
    Debt as at 5 June 2023 - £15,600.89
    Current debt - £5,555.00
    Total paid off - £10,045.89 (64% paid off)
  • You're bound to feel up and down and maybe a bit more down than up at the moment, you're navigating a lot emotionally and life-wise. It's good you're giving yourself the opportunity to feel festive should the mood take you x
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