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  • Blackcats
    Blackcats Posts: 4,153 Forumite
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    Families can be very ...... (insert adjective of choice)
    you made the right decision about visiting over the weekend.  Far better for his mum to settle back into her own home and rest.  
    I really dislike family members trying to make us feel guilty.  In our case it's MrBC's family who seem to want a medal for anything they do to care for their relative.  I just deleted and modified my tirade 😡
  • rtandon27
    rtandon27 Posts: 6,257 Forumite
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    EH - we are fuming for you! - all families are the same aren't they!?
    4 YEARS 10 MONTHS DEBT FREE!!! (24 OCT 2016)
    (With heartfelt thanks to those who have gone before us & their indubitable generosity.)
    ...and now I have a mortgage! (23 AUG 2021)
    Original Date - Sept 2041 New projection - Dec 2039 (reduced by 21 months)
  • Cheery_Daff
    Cheery_Daff Posts: 17,954 Forumite
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    Very impressed with your regular saver discipline! We just have four between us, and one only just matured, but that's quite enough for now! 
  • badmemory
    badmemory Posts: 10,179 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Yes it took me 5 today, not one of my better days certainly.
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