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Progress not Perfection

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  • foxgloves
    foxgloves Posts: 13,071 Forumite
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    I'm wondering about watching 'Love Actually' tomorrow. It'd be good incentive for getting a really early start on the stuff I need to do then some lovely film time later with the cats. 
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    2025's challenges: 1) To fill our 10 Savings Pots to their healthiest level ever
    2) To read 100 books (46/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg

    "Life can only be understood backwards but it must be lived forwards" (Soren Kirkegaard 1813-55)
  • jwil
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    That's awful about the nectar points. I hope your friend gets them reimbursed.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • Sun_Addict
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    Morning all 🎄 

    Got up early and touched up my roots. Got to tint my eyebrows later. I’ll do my nails tomorrow so might save Love Actually for then. 

    Went to Lid! first thing and got some more shallots and 2 swedes. I had a couple of coupons for freebies and a 25% off voucher for candles and diffusers that I wanted to use before they expired. 

    The blind has been fitted in my home office so that room is finished now. 

    I was going to get DD a chicken crown for her Christmas Day dinner. She cooks her own food normally but I usually do her something at Christmas. Good job I asked her if she wanted me to get her one as she about bit my head off with her response. I take it that’s a no then 😕 I don’t know what’s wrong with her just lately she barely speaks and has earphones in constantly so you have to gesticulate to get her attention. She’s been stomping around the house with a face like thunder for days. I don’t know what imaginary thing we’ve done wrong but her beef seems to be with Mr SA and I 🤷‍♀️ Mr SA only asked her a question the other day and she almost bit his head off too! From past experience I’ve found you have to give her a wide berth until she’s got over herself. No wonder she’s still single at almost 39! Jeez 🙄 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • foxgloves
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    It must be frustrating not to have her own place at her age, @Sun_Addict. Perhaps there's a touch of that, as there's a bit of a landmark end of decade birthday not too far away & I think although we all know these things are just a number, these big birthdays looming do sort of make us evaluate aspects of our lives. I'm glad rents/mortgages were cheaper when I was single as I would have found living at home as an adult really difficult.
    25% off for diffusers/candles is a good offer. I cheated with my diffuser as I used a pretty gin bottle I'd saved & a £1.50 pack of reeds then just bought a refill bottle of fragrance, although this was at our favourite big local-ish garden centre, where some of the fragrance diffusers really are silly money.
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    2025's challenges: 1) To fill our 10 Savings Pots to their healthiest level ever
    2) To read 100 books (46/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg

    "Life can only be understood backwards but it must be lived forwards" (Soren Kirkegaard 1813-55)
  • doingitanyway
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    I thought of you whilst shopping. You buy the smoked Basa from Lidlees, so I bought a few packets.
    Well done with your steps. I walked there (top a hill) but got a lift home...
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 350/1000
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  • Sun_Addict
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    I thought of you whilst shopping. You buy the smoked Basa from Lidlees, so I bought a few packets.
    Well done with your steps. I walked there (top a hill) but got a lift home...
    Yes it’s useful to have in and is frequently on a good offer. I had to stop myself buying it as I had so much in the freezer 😆
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
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