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  • Sounds like a fabulous night out! Yay for good friends and people who just get us!  :D
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  • Sounds like a fabulous night out! Yay for good friends and people who just get us!  :D
    Exactly this!! 

    Glad you had a good night out, and still going with the good deeds, bless your heart x
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    Sounds like just the type of night out you need every once in a while!  Glad you had fun and hope the damage on the bank balance wasn’t as bad as the hangover made you think!!!!

    I had my first night out for drinks since my LBM and I was very impressed I stayed within my set budget for the night although I was living in fear when the group I was with insisted on doing rounds.  15 quid for a round of 2 drinks!!! I remember when a round of drinks for 5-6 would be about £20 
  • AntoMac
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    You can’t put a price on a great night out Keedie. We all need a bit of enjoyment and to let ourselves go every now and then.
    I was at a 30th party last night, and was pleased with myself for staying up till midnight…… Well your 4.30am has put that into perspective! That wasn’t too far off the time I got up this morning!!!  More impressed by your continued will to look out for those less fortunate than yourself.  It’s a value I try to apply in my own life. I always try to do what my Dad would do if he was still with us.  Here’s hoping the financial damage of your night out wasn’t too damaging when you tot it up.
    As for £15 for 2 drinks @abaka , you must drink in some posh establishments  ;)
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  • Squirrelz92
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    edited 5 October 2022 at 8:12AM
    Hi @Keedie :) First off, loving the summary 😆 It helps so much when it is set out a certain way doesn't it? I find it helps motivate me more as it makes my financial position and my progress clear as day moving into the next period. 

    Absolutely insane achievement knowing you paid 14.52% of your debt off in two months!!!! Ruddy awesome!!! It is definitely not to be sniffed at as I would kill to be able to do what you have so go you 🎉

    I think your idea of having a small break after paying off one CC by not overpaying as much the next period is a great idea. Not only is it incentive but its also a mental reward for yourself for continuing to chip away despite all the giant potholes we incur along the way :)

    Keep it up! You are rocking it 😆🎊 x
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    Well done @keedie on reaching a better work/life balance and that is a huge amount that you have paid off so far.  I take glucosamine for my aching bones/joints and it has also made my thinning hair a bit thicker.  Indi 
  • Keedie
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    Bless you @Squirrelz92, I absolutely love your enthusiasm! And yes, this is the perfect way to do a summary as I know that I am focussing on one month at a time, and I will be able to have a mini celebration each month on what I have achieved and have a laser sharp focus on what I can achieve in the next period. 

    I'll clear the Bank of Mum 2 in November and so December means that I can relax a little and enjoy the festive period before going at it hard again in January. 

    Thanks @IndiJonesi, having this balance feels a lot better, and I'm not so weighed down. I will look into glucosamine, as the pain gets to be too much at times and the bonus of having thicker hair will really be appreciated. My hair has thinned all along my hairline and at the nap of neck and parts in the middle. Luckily it's an afro so it's not so noticeable to the untrained eye, but it's not normal for me to have clumps of hair coming out when I comb it or touch it.

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