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  • Hope you're feeling better and have had a restful day. No better way to celebrate winter solstice than by doing as little as possible 
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6466032/an-in-between-phase/p1

    'self-blame can be as egotistical as self-praise... any work worth doing is greater than we are... we must not overrate our importance to it, either for good or ill' Margaret Kennedy Lucy Carmichael
  • Cherryfudge
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    Oh dear, better out than in I guess. I hope you feel better soon.
    I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
    The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)

    Fashion on the Ration 2025: Fabric 2, men's socks 3, Duvet 7.5, 2 t-shirts 10, men's socks 3, uniform top 0, hat 0, shoes 5 = 30.5/68
    2024: Trainers 5, dress 7, slippers 5, 2 prs socks (gift) 2, 3 prs white socks 3, t-shirts x 2 10, 6 prs socks: mostly gifts 6, duvet set 7.5 = 45.5/68 coupons
    20.5 coupons used in 2020. 62.5 used in 2021. 94.5 remaining as of 21/3/22
  • Sorry you are poorly 
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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  • Have a good one, even or especially if that means snoozing all day. Thank you for all your postie work 🥂
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6466032/an-in-between-phase/p1

    'self-blame can be as egotistical as self-praise... any work worth doing is greater than we are... we must not overrate our importance to it, either for good or ill' Margaret Kennedy Lucy Carmichael
  • Cherryfudge
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    Exactly - where would we be without posties! Have a very restful day.
    I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
    The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)

    Fashion on the Ration 2025: Fabric 2, men's socks 3, Duvet 7.5, 2 t-shirts 10, men's socks 3, uniform top 0, hat 0, shoes 5 = 30.5/68
    2024: Trainers 5, dress 7, slippers 5, 2 prs socks (gift) 2, 3 prs white socks 3, t-shirts x 2 10, 6 prs socks: mostly gifts 6, duvet set 7.5 = 45.5/68 coupons
    20.5 coupons used in 2020. 62.5 used in 2021. 94.5 remaining as of 21/3/22
  • If I'm honest, Christmas just felt like another work day this year. Up at 5, wrangling children, awkward family problems. Then up at 5 again today, out with boys to playground (enjoyable but tiring) then playing until awkwardly asked when I was leaving as she was giving me a lift before nap times etc. 
    A different Christmas than I'm used to, it has me thinking about what I want out of next year, although it is only 7pm and I can't keep my eyes open. Hazards of sleeping on the sofa. 
    I did get my laundry done and food for tomorrow as I am back to work. Petrol station washing machine working again but not really a viable option long term as I need to wash uniform twice a week. Wash and dry cost £12.50 a pop. I plan to get a portable machine to see me though the next six months or so, they cost approx £70. 
    Much thinking about next steps . Although hard to do when so tired.
  • stymied
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    Yup, that sounds like Christmas! So long as you also over-ate?

    Is there any way to acquire more uniform to reduce wash to once a week? How much for just wash? Very heavy to carry then I guess.

    I never knew portable washing machines existed - so cute!

    Will “advent” resume in Jan?

    xx
  • Cherryfudge
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    Belated happy Christmas! I wonder if you could trade a bit of childcare for use of the washing machine at your sister's? Though having a portable washer would be the most helpful. I remember years ago having no washer but a spin dryer and it made a huge difference - though I'm shocked at the the prices now. I think @stymied's idea of an extra set of uniform is spot on and would probably save money in the longer term. Don't forget you may be allowed to claim for necessary laundry against taxes and this can be backdated.
    I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
    The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)

    Fashion on the Ration 2025: Fabric 2, men's socks 3, Duvet 7.5, 2 t-shirts 10, men's socks 3, uniform top 0, hat 0, shoes 5 = 30.5/68
    2024: Trainers 5, dress 7, slippers 5, 2 prs socks (gift) 2, 3 prs white socks 3, t-shirts x 2 10, 6 prs socks: mostly gifts 6, duvet set 7.5 = 45.5/68 coupons
    20.5 coupons used in 2020. 62.5 used in 2021. 94.5 remaining as of 21/3/22
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