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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,971 Forumite
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    Hi Jwil - I feel you on the clutter - although most of its mine. I am that person that can see a potential reuse for everything so find it really hard to let stuff go. Getting a labeller helped though and giving things a place. It reduces the need to hold on to multiples of things - and where I already have the multiples - putting them in a specific place is helping me find stuff more often and therefore reducing the re-buying.
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    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
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  • jwil
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    ladyholly said:
    I would love to declutter unfortunately Mr LH is of the opinion that all stuff might come in useful at some unspecified time. I do sneak things out sometimes but there is much more that is stashed in cupboards. Who else has boxes of floppy discs both used and new? We also have a selection of brolen electronics which he may or more likely may not look at in the future and so it goes on.
    I feel your pain.
    DH is the same.  It's a nightmare.  He's got nearly everything he's ever owned since he was a kid.  I don't mind him having collections but it's everywhere.  He also likes car booting, and buys bulk lots to add to his collections, with the aim of selling the bits he doesn't want.  Unfortunately he never gets round to sorting and selling.

    I'm a sneaker. No other way. Oh would keep everything in a pile on the floor. Kids love everything. Even a pooped balloon could be a Barbie dress. I admire there creativity but not the clutter. I agree with Jwill less clutter is better. And I'm finding I'm getting more so as I get older. 
    The older I get the less I want.  Even stuff that has survived previous culls I am leaning towards getting rid of.  The kids aren't too bad, it's hard getting even their stuff past DH as he wants to sell it all, even the low value stuff I'd rather just be shot of.  Last year I think he did 1 car boot so it's not exactly flying out the door.  Little miss will identify stuff to go, then it will hang around so long that she'll take it back again.
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  • jwil
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    Hi Jwil - I feel you on the clutter - although most of its mine. I am that person that can see a potential reuse for everything so find it really hard to let stuff go. Getting a labeller helped though and giving things a place. It reduces the need to hold on to multiples of things - and where I already have the multiples - putting them in a specific place is helping me find stuff more often and therefore reducing the re-buying.
    I can appreciate the difficulties in letting stuff go.  DH comes from a line of hoarders so it's all he knows.  He does struggle and I try to be empathetic but it's difficult.  I agree though that organising makes such a big difference.  Knowing where stuff is makes it much easier to control what comes in.  DH is a sod for buying multiples and storing them in a different place instead of using the 'household' item and just replacing it when it's used up.
    "If you can dream it, you can do it". Walt Disney
  • jwil
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    I have had a pottering day today and decluttered a few areas, no real method to it.

    One kid's clothing drawer, a few books, a couple of items from a cupboard in the bathroom and I looked through one food cupboard in the kitchen to understand more what is there, and what I don't need t buy for a while!  I also planted a few bulbs, and scattered the rest on the garden.  I'm not sure how good they are and didn't want to spend hours planting them in the rain and considering how late it is.  I read something the other day that said if they fall onto the surface, they will eventually plant themselves. I'm intrigued to see if it happens!

    Payday tomorrow so I'll be able to do my end of year totalising and do a brand new SOA.  I was thinking that there are things that aren't on my existing one (toilet roll subscription and a couple of other bits) so need to ensure they are on there.

    We used up the last of the leftovers today so that's all good too :)  
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  • It sounds like you’ve had a productive day. I think we’ll be eating Christmas things in March here. 
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  • jwil
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    It sounds like you’ve had a productive day. I think we’ll be eating Christmas things in March here. 
    We've still got chocolate and other goodies left which will probably last a while, but all the fresh stuff is eaten.
    "If you can dream it, you can do it". Walt Disney
  • jwil
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    Today's PAD - £2.

    Jan - £126
    Feb - £106
    Mar - £136
    Apr - £122
    May - £113
    June - £108
    July - £177
    August - £115
    September - £92
    October - £87
    November - £80
    December - £76
    "If you can dream it, you can do it". Walt Disney
  • jwil
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    December update:

    Debts:
    1. £3,580/£3500
    2. £4,654/£4562

    Total: £8,234/£8062


    Mortgage - £100,977.96/ £96,177.49

    Savings:
    LISA: £1272.70
    Premium bonds £1025
    Emergency fund: £3.36
    Cash Buffer: £60
    House improvement fund: £0
    "If you can dream it, you can do it". Walt Disney
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    That is so so awesome. 
    Be very proud xx
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