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Prosperous soul embraces creativity & mortgage neutrality

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  • Thanks MF and Blackcats.

    I hate that I can be so organised in some areas of my life and so messy in others...
    I can relate to this and the panic can be paralysing.

    Well done for getting the list together and forming a plan of action, that first step is often the hardest.
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  • savingholmes
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    Thanks MF and Blackcats.

    I hate that I can be so organised in some areas of my life and so messy in others...
    I can relate to this and the panic can be paralysing.

    Well done for getting the list together and forming a plan of action, that first step is often the hardest.
    Yes still fighting panic. I have a work call imminently then going to take an extended lunch break to try and do it.

    My P1p form finally came but need to sort this first.

    Work also want me to book an exam I should have done in October....

    Fighting overwhelm...
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
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    Oh and my roofer added vat to invoice so disputing that.... Fun not.  Channelled @Fortune_Smiles and requested a revised invoice to match quote
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • Yep, it's absolutely a tricky situation with DD - but she does need to learn that HER disabilities don't mean she gets a free pass when it comes to everyone else - she has to deal with people with the same consideration that she wants to be treated with, after all. 

    Hope DS gets off nice and lightly with the dreaded lurgy! 
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  • jwil
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    Great news about the car bill, and hope you get the roof bill sorted.

    Hope the accounts are progressing ok and that DS recovers quickly.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • savingholmes
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    Thanks EH. I did say at the start of the month that this would be a month of boundaries. It came to pass much more quickly than expected!!! Sis has offered to help DD with a claim form. I've texted her about whether DD can get other help from work etc as I'm avoiding direct comms currently as don't want to get sucked into doing more than I'm comfortable with. Ex still hasn't responded. I know sis has seen both of them though...

    Thanks Jwil - Like FS would do I asked for a revised bill to match the verbal quote and thankfully they obliged or that would have been another £36!! Paid cash for that but still due to remain debt neutral so happy with that.

    I haven't done anything more on accounts yet. Will do after balance class tonight and see how I go on... I think I have the right headings - and I know a lot of the costs off by heart - that's my kind of brain - and I have proof of income received... I just need to find all the bits that prove the bills and decide whether to use them all - and then try and put in a template they would be happy with. I still don't know whether if I record a loss at CH (which I will) but say to Tx dormant whether that has any other effect other than stopping me from claiming the loss against future tax obligations... It's one of those annoying things where the costs of getting it wrong are probably still less than paying for the right kind of help. Any helpers wouldn't be impressed with the short deadline either. Another example for my form though. 

    Tomorrow or Monday will speak to GP and ask for more help - and an ADHD diagnosis and see how I fare. I've asked for the latter before - and they agreed pre-covid but never did it. I need to restart I think but point out I asked before. My fave doc left and it just makes it all harder... Again probably examples for my form.

    In better news though I've had tasty food today: porridge, cottage pie and then soup. With lots of fruit and a little junk food on the side...
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • Well done with re-negotiating the invoice SH - you go girl!  Has the revolution started 😂

    Fortune x

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