Missy’s Surviving the storm so we can dance in the rain.

MagicCat

I'm so sorry to hear this Missymoo, what an awful shock.

I've no real advice other than what other people have said, but once things have settled a bit it's really worth getting some proper legal advice about the business etc, it's a complicated situation with being married and working together - I think you can often get an initial half hour free advice with some solicitors which might be a start.

dawnybabes

You will be in shock, I didn’t tell my family for a couple of weeks when my then DH did this to me.  I wanted to be sure what I was going to do before I told them.  Start your UC straight away - it takes a few weeks to come through. (Hugs) 

you will get through this, just keep repeating ‘this too shall pass’ 

missymoo81

Thank you, I do appreciate it.

slm6002

Hoping you made it through the weekend ok and enjoyed some time with just you and the children 

Elisheba

Oh, Missy.  I am so sorry to hear this.  The shock is real, and I know from being through something similar you'll just keep hoping it isn't real and it will just go away somehow.

You will get through this - this too shall pass.  As everyone on here before me has said, the next steps are to sort out where you are financially, so at least you know what's going on with that and can make some decisions.  Sending you huge hugs.

MsPennyMinder

I'm sorry to hear you are going through this, Missy but you will get through it. You and the kids will be fine

dawnybabes

Hope you’re doing ok x 

missymoo81

Thank you, not sure which way is up at the minute. Seeing a counsellor tomorrow so hoping that may help. First one I saw was just pointless. Feeling v emotional still. Will update as and when I feel able. Thanks all for checking in x

Four_Seasons

Sending love and hugs x

slm6002

How are you and the children getting on?