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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,530 Ambassador
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    Did you manage to get a grant to help with the cost?

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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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  • beanielou said:
    Did you manage to get a grant to help with the cost?

    Right........As far as I know the council are paying for it... 
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Great news re living room, fish tank and stairlift.  Sorry about your friend - I agree with Rosa that it's hard because all the shows on tv tell us we should have "our" people and for the vast majority, life is just not like that.  But if your friend is causing you more upset than joy, it's time to kick her to the kerb!
  • Hi Buffy
    Sounds like you are making great progress with the house & good news especially about the stair lift.
    I haven't watched Reacher yet (the books are a bit grim for me these days) but agree that the prime actor looks just how Reacher should look  <3
    Hope you have a good day 
    love Deni 
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  • Alchemilla
    Alchemilla Posts: 6,252 Forumite
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    badmemory said:
    Massive improvement on Tom Cruise!
    You took the words!
  • I am feeling frustrated today. 
    Have to take Mum to the dentist. Dog one isn't well - but I can't tell if he is ill or stressed, he goes off of his food if stressed and yesterday the stair lift guy and the whole moving furniture thing.... neither of them have eaten their dinner for two days which is normal when I do "stuff" in the house. But Dog one was sick in the garden. 

    I am quite stressed about work. I just don't have time to do my job well.  I did some work last night and felt better but when I woke up this morning and saw the state of my room and then went out to the rabbits. They need to be sorted out and bonded but I only have a week off. 

    Just had to go upstairs to help Mum. I feel terrible writing this but I just want a day off. I was just finishing a cup of tea and watching Charmed ;) and then she is there stumbling around up stairs. So scary.  I am so stressed by all the things I am not doing or getting done. Mum is so frail and virtually immobile. She finds  the appointments really stressful. So do I. And being at home you would think I would know by now she has a cup of tea, I need to let the dogs out, feed the animals and by then she is in the shower, she doesn't like the dogs being downstairs alone and it used be ok as I would do school work then but this holiday I am just too overwhelmed. It is too much. Now I have to coax her into breakfast....

    Am going to work on my room when I get home from the dentist. Hopefully once the dentist is out of the way we will feel better. XXX 
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • ok. back from the dentist. 

    Not great news. my poor Mum. Can't be helped now. 

    She is now more relaxed as we are home. And so am I ! 

    I think one of the guinea pigs is ill so she is going to the vets tomorrow. Worrying. She is ok in herself but I do think it could be serious. 

    I am watching Jack Reacher again. He is certainly diverting. 
    Nevertheless she persisted.


  • Not great news. my poor Mum. Can't be helped now. 
    What's wrong with your mum, Buffy? 
    Credit card One :£926.60( Oct 21 )(Nov 21 vet bill disaster), £999(Jan 22), £974(Feb 22)
    Credit Card Fl :£739.26 (Oct 21)£763 (Nov 21) , £590(Jan 22), £298(Feb 22)
    Savings target C.U.  £1000(£410 Oct 21)(£610 Nov 21)
    Savings target Bank £500  (£10 Oct 21) (£50 Nov 21)(£60 Jan 22)(£80 Feb 22)
    Credit Union loan paid off. Now for the funeral plan...


  • Not great news. my poor Mum. Can't be helped now. 
    What's wrong with your mum, Buffy? 
    She has rheumatoid arthritis, which means she can't clean her teeth properly so they are falling out essentially. Which means she can't eat etc. 
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,530 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Can your mum not use a wee electric toothbrush Buffy? xx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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