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Three years to get debt free

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  • Sun_Addict
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    Do you think the friend will become more than a friend, he sounds nice xx Or is he strictly just a friend.
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Willowtree222
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    Do you think the friend will become more than a friend, he sounds nice xx Or is he strictly just a friend.
    This is the heart to heart that I had the other week. We’re both far too independent to take it to anything more. We enjoy each other’s company, have similar interests but have busy schedules and our own lives which we’re both happy with. We both agreed that we are happy as things are and no need to change anything x
    September 2017 Debt = £25330

    Starting afresh.

    You can do anything if you put your mind to it. x
  • Fidelia
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    Do you think the friend will become more than a friend, he sounds nice xx Or is he strictly just a friend.
    This is the heart to heart that I had the other week. We’re both far too independent to take it to anything more. We enjoy each other’s company, have similar interests but have busy schedules and our own lives which we’re both happy with. We both agreed that we are happy as things are and no need to change anything x
    Not even a 'friend with benefits' ?  Sorry if it's an intrusive question.
    New Challenge:  Tilly Tidy as much as possible in 2022.  Running total to 26 Feb: £183.77

    Tilly Tidy to £1200+ by 31/12/2021 Challenge.   
    Final 2021 total: £1313.37 /£1200+     Average £109.45/month 
    J£74.95/F£92.17/M£99.42/A£98.20/M£116.30/J£129.68/J£93.37/A£140.25/S£128.10/O£119.57/N£106.20/D:£115.16
  • Willowtree222
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    Fidelia said:
    Do you think the friend will become more than a friend, he sounds nice xx Or is he strictly just a friend.
    This is the heart to heart that I had the other week. We’re both far too independent to take it to anything more. We enjoy each other’s company, have similar interests but have busy schedules and our own lives which we’re both happy with. We both agreed that we are happy as things are and no need to change anything x
    Not even a 'friend with benefits' ?  Sorry if it's an intrusive question.
    Not intrusive at all 😂 

    x
    September 2017 Debt = £25330

    Starting afresh.

    You can do anything if you put your mind to it. x
  • Had physio this morning, lots of complications because of the fall. My shoulder hasn’t been working properly for months so as a result it has stiffened up and that is causing more difficulties. We know what it is, but it’s an added extra issue that now needs a focus. 

    Going to try to find something to declutter today that is manageable. I know I have loads, I just don’t know what to do. I do have a huge box in the garage that does need taking apart and putting in the bin. That’s job one. Then I’m sure there are other things I can be doing to get myself on top of the house sorting.
    Doing the DVDs is quite a big task but we will see whether I bother to do it.

    I also have a chicken to cook and then decide what I’m making with it.

    DD is happy having a relax the next few days as we were so busy last week. 

    Money seems ok but will see on the 1st how it is when all bills are out. I’ll be putting the bike on the CC later too. That’s another thing to do that I can then focus my debt paying on.

    x


    September 2017 Debt = £25330

    Starting afresh.

    You can do anything if you put your mind to it. x
  • Willowtree222
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    After going through all the down fall of putting the bike on the card I found out today that they don’t accept card and you have to pay it by bank transfer. That left only a money transfer option. The apr on that is 3.9% so that is lower than the bike anyway (6.9) so I’ve done it. I think I’ll save a lot more in interest by just having it on the card as I really hate having it there and know I’ll work on it and have it paid ASAP. It will now become my priority as it has interest on it and I do need to clear that first with it being the highest. That’s shifted my focus now and will become my main paying with some extra off the loan each month.

    I’m hoping to have a couple more sales in the next few weeks and before payday would be ecstatic if I can make £300 and pay it all off the card. The things currently on aren’t guaranteed sellers so who knows if they will. I will pop into the loft and see if I have anything else that can go. 

    I’m in work tomorrow just to get my resources organised and ready for for the first week back. I’ll be happy when I’ve done that. It also corresponds with decluttering as I found some smoking chips a few weeks ago and a colleague has a smoker so that’s three small boxes gone! 

    I gave a bath caddy to my friend this last week so that’s another item gone that I don’t use. 

    I do have stuff round the house that needs doing and I’m going to have to look at them in a few weeks and put a list together in order to fix it. 

    Will update on the eBay stuff later in the week. I do have a couple of items ending but nothing with bids on. One sold today for a few pounds so that will be posted tomorrow. 

    X


    September 2017 Debt = £25330

    Starting afresh.

    You can do anything if you put your mind to it. x
  • Willowtree222
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    Morning everyone,

    I’m going to work today to sort out a few bits. DD is coming with me and is beyond excited 😂 you’d think I was taking her abroad.

    The motorbike jeans I bought don’t fit so I’m going to have to sell them again. The seller doesn’t accept returns so nothing I can do about that except Hope I make my money back. Still waiting on the refund for the boots as well. Not having much luck with motorbike gear.

    Also waiting on a £25 voucher that’s a week later than expected. I’ll chase that up later this week if it’s not here. 

    DD had trampolining and football yesterday. Her clubs are mostly back on now so that’s going to be great for her to have her things back. They’ve been intermittent with people having holidays, including DD last week. 

    Money is ok. Changing the bike will have a slight impact but in the long term that’s ok. I do need to be focussed the next three weeks though as I could easily go into my overdraft. I didn’t hold back spending on holiday and now need to be a little careful. X
    September 2017 Debt = £25330

    Starting afresh.

    You can do anything if you put your mind to it. x
  • Have a productive time at work! That’s my task for tomorrow but always feel I can enjoy the last few days of the holidays if I’ve put in a day or so of prep!
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  • Willowtree222
    Willowtree222 Posts: 8,211 Forumite
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    Have a productive time at work! That’s my task for tomorrow but always feel I can enjoy the last few days of the holidays if I’ve put in a day or so of prep!
    That’s how I feel. I didn’t print the work but had it prepared ready and now know what I’m teaching the first week x
    September 2017 Debt = £25330

    Starting afresh.

    You can do anything if you put your mind to it. x
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