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We really can't afford the house we want/need will things get better for us or just forget it?

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  • The one I viewed yesterday is going for sealed offers, I think that ship has sailed... 
    why? Put a sealed offer in! Then
     tell your buyers 
  • RelievedSheff
    RelievedSheff Posts: 12,691 Forumite
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    The one I viewed yesterday is going for sealed offers, I think that ship has sailed... 
    If you like it put a offer in. You can't buy it if you don't at least try!!
  • mrsmortgage
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    The one I viewed yesterday is going for sealed offers, I think that ship has sailed... 
    If you like it put a offer in. You can't buy it if you don't at least try!!
    I will! But I'm pretty sure we won't be the winning one... The only thing we have in our favour is that we're semi flexible (but that's down to our buyers too). 
  •  The only thing we have in our favour is that we're semi flexible (but that's down to our buyers too). 
    Meaning what?
    Living with Lupus is like juggling with butterflies
  • The one I viewed yesterday is going for sealed offers, I think that ship has sailed... 
    If you like it put a offer in. You can't buy it if you don't at least try!!
    I will! But I'm pretty sure we won't be the winning one... The only thing we have in our favour is that we're semi flexible (but that's down to our buyers too). 
    You won't be seen as ready to move, because you're not.
  • mrsmortgage
    mrsmortgage Posts: 486 Forumite
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    edited 25 June 2021 at 12:05PM
    You won't be seen as ready to move, because you're not.
    Well isn't the main issue to have a buyer, which I have? Obviously against a cash buyer I have nothing to offer, apart from the fact that my buyers have said they're happy to wait up to six months. 

    The vendors are actively looking too, and they aren't willing to move to renting. 
  • You won't be seen as ready to move, because you're not.
    Well isn't the main issue to have a buyer, which I have? Obviously against a cash buyer I have nothing to offer, apart from the fact that my buyers have said they're happy to wait up to six months. 

    The vendors are actively looking too, and they aren't willing to move to renting. 
    I don't think I could spread a house move out over such a massive amount of time. By the time your vendors are willing to move (in their own slow time) your buyers mortgage offer will have probably run out. 

  • mrsmortgage
    mrsmortgage Posts: 486 Forumite
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    You won't be seen as ready to move, because you're not.
    Well isn't the main issue to have a buyer, which I have? Obviously against a cash buyer I have nothing to offer, apart from the fact that my buyers have said they're happy to wait up to six months. 

    The vendors are actively looking too, and they aren't willing to move to renting. 
    I don't think I could spread a house move out over such a massive amount of time. By the time your vendors are willing to move (in their own slow time) your buyers mortgage offer will have probably run out. 

    It's a tough place to be in. I still don't think I'd be offering enough to win that particular house. 
  • RelievedSheff
    RelievedSheff Posts: 12,691 Forumite
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    You won't be seen as ready to move, because you're not.
    Well isn't the main issue to have a buyer, which I have? Obviously against a cash buyer I have nothing to offer, apart from the fact that my buyers have said they're happy to wait up to six months. 

    The vendors are actively looking too, and they aren't willing to move to renting. 
    I don't think I could spread a house move out over such a massive amount of time. By the time your vendors are willing to move (in their own slow time) your buyers mortgage offer will have probably run out. 

    It's a tough place to be in. I still don't think I'd be offering enough to win that particular house. 
    You don't know if you don't try though.
  • Scotbot
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    The one I viewed yesterday is going for sealed offers, I think that ship has sailed... 
    Is that the 350k semi?
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