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You right, but I will wait until March where he now says his wife seen it so will send me 500-1000 100 a month then august/sept from buiness all of it
I know he’s lying0 -
When I don’t send him money he’s like I’m trying to win for you..I have no answer to that even though I know he’s lying
then he makes out money is graunteed there0 -
sim2335 said:You right, but I will wait until March where he now says his wife seen it so will send me 500-1000 100 a month then august/sept from buiness all of it
I know he’s lying
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sim2335 said:When I don’t send him money he’s like I’m trying to win for you..I have no answer to that even though I know he’s lying
then he makes out money is graunteed there
You have had good advice, and yet your still clinging on to false promises, its quite a bizarre thread to be honest.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter7 -
I ain’t clinging on to anything, I was just saying what he said
march he will be gone and reprieved to police and court befriend action but worn take action
I know most likely it would be better now then March but I will still take that 1% chance and see what he says in March0 -
For harrsment is it better to go through civil court or police?
also I would love to go to police about harrsment, however won’t that make him want revenge, where’s if I block him he’s unlikely to want revenge0 -
Just block him and enjoy spending all that money on yourself! I'm really not getting this situation at all. He's the only one who has done anything wrong so he won't do anything against you. If anyone found out what he's being doing the threat of shame and embarrassment should be enough to keep him away.
You keep saying about the police and other things but why does it even have to get to that stage? Block him and cut all contact. See what happens but I doubt he will actually do anything. I think you're more worried about losing him as a supposed "friend" or you would have stopped bothering with him a long time ago.1 -
I’m gona block him tommrow I can’t handle his harrsment anymore regardless of what I say he won’t stop
police because of the harrsment, if he comes back,he’s not gona given in easily just because I block him I was his money source for years.
some people will be on my side others will say you were dumb for believing him.
also he said he’s gona be at work end of month for one month wonder if he will do anything then.
don’t care about his friendship reason I didn’t stop is he had my money, I kept thinking I would get it back but now I know I won’t..0 -
Phone your bank tell them that you have been subjected to financial and emotional abuse by a so call "friend" and ask them to block ALL future bank transfers to said "friend".
You've lost 6 grand, lesson learned,
End of story.
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Why wait until tomorrow to block him ? Block him NOW!5
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