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  • joedenise
    joedenise Posts: 17,606 Forumite
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    Absolutely agree with both @southern_chick and @WinterWarrior.  Love WW's suggestion!

  • stymied
    stymied Posts: 654 Forumite
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    Do you even care about his hair length any more? Fingers crossed for no more imaginary problems being raised tonight! Stay strong x
  • bellevie
    bellevie Posts: 893 Forumite
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    It must be exhausting treading on eggshells constantly.
    Is the 18 month timescale for the debt to be cleared and savings built? 
    If you needed to go sooner could you? Do you think there's any chance if you stay true to yourself he might chose to walk away, could you see that happening?
    MFW
    Starting debt :£287,410 -11/2020

    2022 Closing balance £271,402.45 

    2023 closing balance £263140


    Original end 11/2045 
    New end date :....... 

    Overpayments to date £574.4 (1/26)



  • bellevie
    bellevie Posts: 893 Forumite
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    It makes such a difference to have great support outside the home doesn't it 😊

    I can see why your position is difficult, it sounds like you've thought this out clearly, good that you also know what your position would be if it did need to end sooner.
    MFW
    Starting debt :£287,410 -11/2020

    2022 Closing balance £271,402.45 

    2023 closing balance £263140


    Original end 11/2045 
    New end date :....... 

    Overpayments to date £574.4 (1/26)



  • WinterWarrior
    WinterWarrior Posts: 6,086 Forumite
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    It sounds like a great plan. Just make sure your deposit savings can’t be raided when you leave.
    Wishing you the best of luck...it can only get better. 
    Not all who wander are lost - J.R.R.Tolkien
    🌊 A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor 🌊

    My WW and friends diary is here 😁 … 
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6259606/must-try-harder/p1

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