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  • Mumoffourkids
    Mumoffourkids Posts: 1,071 Forumite
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    so progress so far

    Will be working on sides and doors this week. Need to make some door handles from scratch and weld them on. Need to paint wood for sides and doors then screw the wood on. Can not believe it myself that there is actual units! 
    I am loving this!! Well done ;) I actually really like that metal effect and all the bare metal. Please post pics when they all up.

    We are doing soldering next week I think in DIY class on plumbing joints - this week was carpentry joints and I was happily sawing and chiselling away by the end despite never having done either before.
    I saw some glorious tables and bar stools recently all very expensive and I did think 'Oh I could learn to weld like Sister Gold and make them myself'- did you go to class to weld or was it all self taught after your various classes and home DIY/?

    @SuseOrm your ceiling fell down?! Glad you OK.

    Hope everyone is settling in their new homes  - i am also eyeing up a heated throw..@EndlessStruggle so good to know you love it
    I’m so jealous of your DIY classes. I’ve looked near me and I can’t see any apart from one that starts in February. And then when I thought about it, I can’t really commit to a weekly class as I work shifts and my shifts change each week. So I’ve been thinking about a diy book to get instead so that I can do bits around the house as they come up. Does anyone have any recommendations?

    Also your cabinets look awesome Sistergold. I’m always afraid that anything I put up on the wall will fall down so I’m in total awe at yours staying up.
  • so progress so far

    Will be working on sides and doors this week. Need to make some door handles from scratch and weld them on. Need to paint wood for sides and doors then screw the wood on. Can not believe it myself that there is actual units! 
    I am loving this!! Well done ;) I actually really like that metal effect and all the bare metal. Please post pics when they all up.

    We are doing soldering next week I think in DIY class on plumbing joints - this week was carpentry joints and I was happily sawing and chiselling away by the end despite never having done either before.
    I saw some glorious tables and bar stools recently all very expensive and I did think 'Oh I could learn to weld like Sister Gold and make them myself'- did you go to class to weld or was it all self taught after your various classes and home DIY/?

    @SuseOrm your ceiling fell down?! Glad you OK.

    Hope everyone is settling in their new homes  - i am also eyeing up a heated throw..@EndlessStruggle so good to know you love it
    I’m so jealous of your DIY classes. I’ve looked near me and I can’t see any apart from one that starts in February. And then when I thought about it, I can’t really commit to a weekly class as I work shifts and my shifts change each week. So I’ve been thinking about a diy book to get instead so that I can do bits around the house as they come up. Does anyone have any recommendations?

    Also your cabinets look awesome Sistergold. I’m always afraid that anything I put up on the wall will fall down so I’m in total awe at yours staying up.
    A few people on my diary have recommended this as a diy book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0007425953/

    @Sistergold I'm definitely in awe of those cabinets! Will be exciting to see them develop.
    Start mortgage date: August 2022; Start mortgage amount: £240,999; Original mortgage free date: August 2056
    Current mortgage amount: £226,957.97
    Start student loan 2012: £29,750; current student loan: CLEARED July 2025
  • so progress so far

    Will be working on sides and doors this week. Need to make some door handles from scratch and weld them on. Need to paint wood for sides and doors then screw the wood on. Can not believe it myself that there is actual units! 
    I am loving this!! Well done ;) I actually really like that metal effect and all the bare metal. Please post pics when they all up.

    We are doing soldering next week I think in DIY class on plumbing joints - this week was carpentry joints and I was happily sawing and chiselling away by the end despite never having done either before.
    I saw some glorious tables and bar stools recently all very expensive and I did think 'Oh I could learn to weld like Sister Gold and make them myself'- did you go to class to weld or was it all self taught after your various classes and home DIY/?

    @SuseOrm your ceiling fell down?! Glad you OK.

    Hope everyone is settling in their new homes  - i am also eyeing up a heated throw..@EndlessStruggle so good to know you love it
    I’m so jealous of your DIY classes. I’ve looked near me and I can’t see any apart from one that starts in February. And then when I thought about it, I can’t really commit to a weekly class as I work shifts and my shifts change each week. So I’ve been thinking about a diy book to get instead so that I can do bits around the house as they come up. Does anyone have any recommendations?

    Also your cabinets look awesome Sistergold. I’m always afraid that anything I put up on the wall will fall down so I’m in total awe at yours staying up.
    I have to say I personally needed to go to an actual class as I was definitely scared of power tools and having someone show us the right way to hold things and safety measures when using everything is part of what is allowing me to learn happily. 
    Little but vital things like  being told to make sure to always have both hands busy when using a chisel so either both holding the handle or holding a mallet .. all little things that make it much safer. Plus the teacher watches and gives tips on better body position or body movement  which was vital when we plastered. He can see what we are doing and where we needed to correct.

    Equally having someone there to talk through using a SDS drill or a saw or a jigsaw for the first time .. and being there to ask as you practice, is for me so helpful and allows me to do everything safely and with confidence. 

    in other things in life eg software, new ideas or cooking I will just work it out but I have zero diy experience beyond painting and I have fears of losing a finger.  YouTubers don’t always know best practice H&S or explain what they are doing to be safe. 

    You may be better than I from a DIY start point so book learning could be great in that case. 

    I waited 6 months to get on this course but maybe you could do a weekend or one off one day courses rather than a weekly set one if that’s easier for your schedule? Then when you are more confident in the areas you feel you need to learn then a book would be better 
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    No seriously, just don’t buy things. 99% of our success with our savings rate is attributed to the fact that we don’t buy things... You can and should take advantage of discounts.... But at the end of the day, the only way to truly save money is to not buy stuff.    Money doesn’t walk out of your wallet on its own accord.
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  • SuseOrm
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    Didnt help that I havent really unpacked yet so stuff everywhere 🤦‍♀️
  • SuseOrm
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    John Lewis have a £15 off if you spend over 150 code at the moment I think it’s JL off 15 but I will doublecheck and they have heated throws in stock so I thought too which took me over the spend threshold
  • SuseOrm
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    MYJL15OFF 
  • Sistergold
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    Thank you @LadyWithAPlan, I had to learn to weld at home as all the welding classes were full and I was impatient to wait as I had bought the machines months back before booking any class. It was tricky to learn but it fell into place in the end. 
    This was the first piece 


    I have so many things I needed made from metal it was best I just learn to do it myself. 
    So far list includes to be made
    kitchen units
    book shelve 
    shoe cabinet 
    Sofabed with storage
    tv stand 
    youngest son needs a large single bed so I plan to make the bed frame myself
    list gets longer by the day 
    Initial mortgage bal £487.5k, current £258k, target £243,750(halfway!)
    Mortgage start date first week of July 2019,
    Mortgage term 23yrs(end of June 2042🙇🏽♀️), 
    Target is to pay it off in 10years(by 2030🥳). 
    MFW#10 (2022/23 mfw#34)(2021 mfw#47)(2020 mfw#136)
    £12K in 2021 #54 (in 2020 #148)
    MFiT-T6#27
    To save £100K in 48months start 01/07/2020 Achieved 30/05/2023 👯♀️
    Am a single mom of 4. 
    Do not wait to buy a property, Buy a property and wait. 🤓
  • Sistergold
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    SuseOrm said:
    Didnt help that I havent really unpacked yet so stuff everywhere 🤦‍♀️
    Oh dear! Houses do want to throw it all on you don’t they? Good luck @SuseOrm xx 
    Initial mortgage bal £487.5k, current £258k, target £243,750(halfway!)
    Mortgage start date first week of July 2019,
    Mortgage term 23yrs(end of June 2042🙇🏽♀️), 
    Target is to pay it off in 10years(by 2030🥳). 
    MFW#10 (2022/23 mfw#34)(2021 mfw#47)(2020 mfw#136)
    £12K in 2021 #54 (in 2020 #148)
    MFiT-T6#27
    To save £100K in 48months start 01/07/2020 Achieved 30/05/2023 👯♀️
    Am a single mom of 4. 
    Do not wait to buy a property, Buy a property and wait. 🤓
  • Mumoffourkids
    Mumoffourkids Posts: 1,071 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    so progress so far

    Will be working on sides and doors this week. Need to make some door handles from scratch and weld them on. Need to paint wood for sides and doors then screw the wood on. Can not believe it myself that there is actual units! 
    I am loving this!! Well done ;) I actually really like that metal effect and all the bare metal. Please post pics when they all up.

    We are doing soldering next week I think in DIY class on plumbing joints - this week was carpentry joints and I was happily sawing and chiselling away by the end despite never having done either before.
    I saw some glorious tables and bar stools recently all very expensive and I did think 'Oh I could learn to weld like Sister Gold and make them myself'- did you go to class to weld or was it all self taught after your various classes and home DIY/?

    @SuseOrm your ceiling fell down?! Glad you OK.

    Hope everyone is settling in their new homes  - i am also eyeing up a heated throw..@EndlessStruggle so good to know you love it
    I’m so jealous of your DIY classes. I’ve looked near me and I can’t see any apart from one that starts in February. And then when I thought about it, I can’t really commit to a weekly class as I work shifts and my shifts change each week. So I’ve been thinking about a diy book to get instead so that I can do bits around the house as they come up. Does anyone have any recommendations?

    Also your cabinets look awesome Sistergold. I’m always afraid that anything I put up on the wall will fall down so I’m in total awe at yours staying up.
    A few people on my diary have recommended this as a diy book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0007425953/

    @Sistergold I'm definitely in awe of those cabinets! Will be exciting to see them develop.
    Thanks for the recommendation. I have always done a bit of diy anyway. When I lived at home, myself and my mum used to do quite a bit around the house so I just want to learn to do a bit more. I do tend to work well with books and written instructions. In addition I got given quite a few vouchers by friends when I left so I’ve kind of used the vouchers to buy the book.

    I have quite a few plans of things I want to do and I think I will probably run out of money if I get tradesmen in to do all the work. One of the big things I want to do is to revamp the back garden including changing the decking for paving slabs and maybe some grass?
  • Sistergold
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    edited 25 October 2022 at 7:49PM
    Kitchen diaries
    Oh good morning laddies
    So I hope you have all been okay all over the country? We are now beginning to experience a bit of cold weather in London. Hope no one is “freezing” yet? 

    This cold whether leads me to think “oh how will I proceed with welding out in the cold”? So I am trying to speed up the process of cabinet making so that I move things forward quickly while it’s not to cold and wet yet. I also want to have a better kitchen this Christmas as I feel I have just been coping for the past 3 Christmas I have celebrated in my house. 

    So far as you know 4 wall units are up and there is three more wall units to go. As of yesterday I have managed to cut and weld frames for 3 floor cabinets and will work on them today and see how far I can go. Frames are done, hinges have been welded to door frames and need to added metal bits for holding the wood which includes shelving. Then will need to paint it all and cut up worktops and oh there is castor wheels to add. Castor wheels means I still need to make and weld on mounting plates! I must say making the frames and welding on the hinges was much easier on this second lot of frames. Did the three much quicker over about 2 days. Yes it sounds slow I know but believe me it was fast compared to last round. The workmanship also much neater I 🤔. 

    That’s just one of the units while I was processing the frame and door frame. All the protruding bits there are spacers so that doors can swing freely. 
    I am really, really pleased with the outcome so far. I know I know it’s not a magazine type kitchen, not a glossy kitchen BUT in my eyes it’s all good. It’s like how every mother thinks their baby is the most handsome/beautiful child ever born! 

    Anyway I am up bright and early as you can see from this post and with some luck I can finish off the 3 units I am working on. It’s a total of 16 units to be made and thus will be 7 so far. I am just pushing to get to 8 so as to feel that at least half have been done and half to go! I REALLY NEED THIS KITCHEN BY CHRISTMAS! 

    Making list 
    Walls 3 completed out of 7 
    Floor 3 in the making out of 9  
    🤞
    Initial mortgage bal £487.5k, current £258k, target £243,750(halfway!)
    Mortgage start date first week of July 2019,
    Mortgage term 23yrs(end of June 2042🙇🏽♀️), 
    Target is to pay it off in 10years(by 2030🥳). 
    MFW#10 (2022/23 mfw#34)(2021 mfw#47)(2020 mfw#136)
    £12K in 2021 #54 (in 2020 #148)
    MFiT-T6#27
    To save £100K in 48months start 01/07/2020 Achieved 30/05/2023 👯♀️
    Am a single mom of 4. 
    Do not wait to buy a property, Buy a property and wait. 🤓
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