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SLLM (Single Lady Large Mortgage)
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That's actually part of what I'm looking forward to when my kids completely move out. When they are here I feel fully responsible for them. When they stay overnight elsewhere I don't. Glad I'm not the only one. And the peace. When Ex moved out taking all of his annoying noise with him it was such a physical relief...Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £166.7K Equity 38.23% 12/7/26
2) £1.8K Net savings after CCs 31/7/26 (but owed £400) so £2.2K
3) 44.5/82K = 54.26% AVC Goal by mid 20281 -
It is sad to say that we get to a point where you are just glad someone is gone! I am so glad to have the bedroom to myself now 🙊 no bumping into each other in bed, no snoring keeping me awake! To be honest I am now living THE LIFE!savingholmes said:And the peace. When Ex moved out taking all of his annoying noise with him it was such a physical relief...Initial mortgage bal £487.5k, current £238k, target £122k (quarter way!)
Mortgage start date first week of July 2019,
Mortgage term 23yrs(end of June 2042🙇🏽♀️),Target is to pay it off in 10years(by 2030🥳).MFW#10 (2022/23 mfw#34)(2021 mfw#47)(2020 mfw#136)
£12K in 2021 #54 (in 2020 #148)
MFiT-T6#27
To save £100K in 48months start 01/07/2020 Achieved 30/05/2023 👯♀️
To save £100k in 60months start 01/01/2027
Am a single mom of 4.Do not wait to buy a property, Buy a property and wait. 🤓1 -
Good to hearAchieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £166.7K Equity 38.23% 12/7/26
2) £1.8K Net savings after CCs 31/7/26 (but owed £400) so £2.2K
3) 44.5/82K = 54.26% AVC Goal by mid 20280 -
Hello ladies
Well December is well under way and new year and new year resolutions and all? One resolution I really need to make is to get back to my ideal body weight. In readiness to have a good start I would like to get back onto the 5:2 diet. Tough times call for this. To make eating 800 calories on my fasting days interesting I have bought an 800calorie recipe book. Hope this will take the maths out of the whole plan? Let’s see if I will be motivated enough to lose any weight?Initial mortgage bal £487.5k, current £238k, target £122k (quarter way!)
Mortgage start date first week of July 2019,
Mortgage term 23yrs(end of June 2042🙇🏽♀️),Target is to pay it off in 10years(by 2030🥳).MFW#10 (2022/23 mfw#34)(2021 mfw#47)(2020 mfw#136)
£12K in 2021 #54 (in 2020 #148)
MFiT-T6#27
To save £100K in 48months start 01/07/2020 Achieved 30/05/2023 👯♀️
To save £100k in 60months start 01/01/2027
Am a single mom of 4.Do not wait to buy a property, Buy a property and wait. 🤓1 -
Could you reward yourself for losing weight?Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £166.7K Equity 38.23% 12/7/26
2) £1.8K Net savings after CCs 31/7/26 (but owed £400) so £2.2K
3) 44.5/82K = 54.26% AVC Goal by mid 20280 -
Good suggestion, will need to think of ways to reward myself? Anyone with what rewards worked for them? Xxsavingholmes said:Could you reward yourself for losing weight?Initial mortgage bal £487.5k, current £238k, target £122k (quarter way!)
Mortgage start date first week of July 2019,
Mortgage term 23yrs(end of June 2042🙇🏽♀️),Target is to pay it off in 10years(by 2030🥳).MFW#10 (2022/23 mfw#34)(2021 mfw#47)(2020 mfw#136)
£12K in 2021 #54 (in 2020 #148)
MFiT-T6#27
To save £100K in 48months start 01/07/2020 Achieved 30/05/2023 👯♀️
To save £100k in 60months start 01/01/2027
Am a single mom of 4.Do not wait to buy a property, Buy a property and wait. 🤓1 -
Perhaps make a list of your wants / what makes you happy
Then say for every half stone or stone you can have X or points towards X depending on how big X is.
Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £166.7K Equity 38.23% 12/7/26
2) £1.8K Net savings after CCs 31/7/26 (but owed £400) so £2.2K
3) 44.5/82K = 54.26% AVC Goal by mid 20280 -
Yes, I will have to find a way of celebrating every 5kg I lose. Going out for dinner with a friend for that occasion sounds appealing. 🎉🥳Initial mortgage bal £487.5k, current £238k, target £122k (quarter way!)
Mortgage start date first week of July 2019,
Mortgage term 23yrs(end of June 2042🙇🏽♀️),Target is to pay it off in 10years(by 2030🥳).MFW#10 (2022/23 mfw#34)(2021 mfw#47)(2020 mfw#136)
£12K in 2021 #54 (in 2020 #148)
MFiT-T6#27
To save £100K in 48months start 01/07/2020 Achieved 30/05/2023 👯♀️
To save £100k in 60months start 01/01/2027
Am a single mom of 4.Do not wait to buy a property, Buy a property and wait. 🤓1 -
As long as you eat well while outAchieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £166.7K Equity 38.23% 12/7/26
2) £1.8K Net savings after CCs 31/7/26 (but owed £400) so £2.2K
3) 44.5/82K = 54.26% AVC Goal by mid 20280 -
Yes make sure I don’t gain all the weight back!savingholmes said:As long as you eat well while outInitial mortgage bal £487.5k, current £238k, target £122k (quarter way!)
Mortgage start date first week of July 2019,
Mortgage term 23yrs(end of June 2042🙇🏽♀️),Target is to pay it off in 10years(by 2030🥳).MFW#10 (2022/23 mfw#34)(2021 mfw#47)(2020 mfw#136)
£12K in 2021 #54 (in 2020 #148)
MFiT-T6#27
To save £100K in 48months start 01/07/2020 Achieved 30/05/2023 👯♀️
To save £100k in 60months start 01/01/2027
Am a single mom of 4.Do not wait to buy a property, Buy a property and wait. 🤓1
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