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Welcome to the weekly Flylady Thread.
What is FLYLADY? Well, it's our version of the US
flylady idea - but we work on the principle that housework is not fun, it's
boring, can be time-consuming, is often thankless but, unfortunately,
necessary. It's here on Old Style to provide the support we all need and to
make the whole task easier and quicker. We also accept that, sometimes, life
just gets on top of us and we can't keep up, maybe because we're time-poor, not
in the best of health and/or we have littlies who need us. We are definitely
NOT control freaks aiming for perfection and utterly spotless show-homes.
You're more than welcome to join us in the
everlasting battle against dust, grime and gibble. The aim of our thread is to
make those onerous tasks less daunting, and to support each other - and to make
time for the finer things in life!
Please do remember we have to abide by MSE rules;
each post should, ideally, include some mention of flying.
Thank you Valli for last week's thread.
Please follow the forum rules on this thread as
Flylady has been here a LONG time and is a fabulous support and resource for
lots of us. All posts should have some Flylady-related content! (i.e. it should
be on-topic)
The idea is that even if you are really busy you
don't need to fall off the wagon!
Every room comes back around next week so please
don’t stress about catching up
These lists are only suggestions and not a must do
list; you are more than welcome to post and follow your own lists.
Also adding a declutter mission each day will help
to gradually clear the clutter and make flying easier.
A few of the basics before we start the week -
Hotspots are areas where if one thing gets
put there, loads of other things follow!
Daily routines are anything you need to do on
a daily basis like washing, swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, ironing,
making beds, vacuuming high traffic areas, making meals etc.
Night-time routines are all things which make
getting ready in the morning easier, preparing clothes for the next day, making
lunches, swish & swipes of the kitchen and tidying the living room before
you go to bed plus personals like shower/brush teeth etc.
Fling Boogie - stick on some loud music, grab
a bin bag and whiz around the house finding items that can go out with the
rubbish, recycling, for charity shop, basically anything that will stop it
cluttering your home.
Swish and swipe/S&S means have a quick
wipe over an area such as a sink or toilet to prevent the build up of dirt.
This is usually done on a daily basis
HHE/HHC/HHI Half Hour
exercise/challenge/ironing ... run around for 30 minutes to the Benny Hill music frantically cleaning exercising or ironing..
.other music may be used if you prefer!
WM ~ Washing machine
TD ~ Tumble dryer
SC ~ Slowcooker
BM ~ Breadmaker
DW ~ Dishwasher
SOAADFA ~ Sit on 'bottom' and do 'nothing'
KH/XH/FW ~ Ex-husband and other not so polite
versions
DH/DD/DS/DW/DP ~ Dear husband/daughter/son/wife/partner/whatever
OH/SO ~ Other half/significant other
NN ~ nice neighbour
Toxic (friend/mother/sister/whoever) ~ person
in your life that seems to exist to make your life miserable
AF ~ Aunt Flo 'time of the month'.. nothing
to do with flying but it comes up often.
ETA ~ Edited to add
Gibble ~ miscellaneous crap that appears
forever homeless
Dot-to-dot ~ pick a small area (not a whole
room) like a chair/coffee/table/shelf/worktop or wherever- that’s your first
'dot' - totally clear it - clean it - and only put back what should be there -
deal with what you have removed (not just move it somewhere else) then if you
have time move on and do the same to another 'dot' -the idea is just like a dot
to dot puzzle, you aim to join up all the dots and have a tidy room. The trick
is to keep each dot tidy until you get them all joined up! All credit to former
Flylady AnW's Mum for this one
RoD ~ Room of Doom, the one room that feels
like it is a permanent pit and cannot be used to its potential!
MAD half hour - Mad is the abbreviation for Make A Difference.
The idea is that you have a Forth bridge (ie
never-ending - or just huge) task but that you work on it in half-hour bursts.
This way you know you ARE stopping, and that you won't get it finished but you
will make a difference - so it might be clearing out - the garage or shed, or
clothes sorting, or weeding - you get the picture - but rather than keep going
until you've lost the will to live you do half an hour...but, eventually those
half hours will get the job done!
Frog (or other amphibian) ~ google 'eat that
frog'
Spoons ~ google 'but you don't look sick'
and/or 'The Spoon Theory'.
Mr S/A/T/M/L/Al - supermarkets Sainsburys,
Asda, Tesco, Morrisons, Lidl, Aldi. You get the picture!!
Click here to read Toots
wonderful welcome guide
Magnificent
Monday - Kitchen and dining room
Level One..
Clear and wipe worksurfaces
Scrub down the front of units and large appliances
Level Two...
Sweep and mop the floor
Wipe and replace small appliances
Clean oven and hob
Wash windows and sills
Level Three...
Wipe the table and chairs... clean cloth if necessary
Degunge the fridge!
Extras
- Thoroughly clean the cupboard full of tins!
- Run the WM's and DW's through a clean cycle
- Clean all the filters and door seals etc
- Wipe a shelf or 3 and staighten all the stuff on them.
- Twinkly
Tuesday ~ master bedroom and landing
Level One...
Clear the floordrobe
Clear the landing of gibble
Level Two...
Dust and deweb
Wash the windows
Vacuum the floors.. and the mattress before remaking the bed
Level Three...
Strip and wash the bedding
Wipe any grotty paintwork and furniture
Check those smoke alarms!
Extras
- Binbag dance
- HHI
- 15 minutes filing
- Fill a binbag of old winter stuff for charity shop!!
- 15 minutes in the garden dead heading or pruning
Wednesday
Wonders ~ Cruddy Study & Bathrooms
Level One...
Declutter floors!
Mop/vacuum/sweep floors
Level Two...
Scrub tiles while running a defrag
Clean the bath, basins, shower trays and loo's
Collect all the laundry from upstairs
Level Three...
Wash windows
Wash bath mats/shower curtains etc
Degrot the desk and dust and polish the monitor and pc case etc
Extras
- Empty and wash out bins
- Wipe all the sofas/chairs in these rooms
- Wipe paintwork in these rooms
- Clear and wipe a shelf or two
- Wipe and water the plants
- Clean out the pets, get rid of that smelly bedding and replace with lovely smelling bits
- Wash any smelly soft furnishings
- Get a pile of filing done!!
- Wash a set of curtains, nets or throw
- Make all those necessary phonecalls!
- HHI
- Make a half hour time out for yourself!!
- Bake a cake
- Spend an hour or so with the family having some lovely special family time.. just talking or watching a film with popcorn etc..
Declutter Challenge 2025
DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️
Comments
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Thanks Natty - not as easy as it was is it?
Bed (with fresh linen) beckonsDon't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily DickinsonJanice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear12 -
Valli said:Thanks Natty - not as easy as it was is it?
Bed (with fresh linen) beckons
Night night xx
Mortgage Free as of 20.9.17Declutter challenge 2023, 2024 🏅 🏅⭐️⭐️
Declutter Challenge 2025
DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️13 -
Thanks for the hard work and the new thread Natty! I’m in for the new week, busy one again and I’ve woken with a headache, not a great start. But parrots and a cuppa will hopefully sort me out.Hugs to all in need, back later with progress report x11
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I'm in thank you.Volunteering todayAnother tip runFood shopBreast Cancer Now 100 miles October 2022 100 / 100miles
D- Day 80km June 2024 80/80km (10.06.24 all done)
Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2024 to complete by end Sept 2024. 1,001,066/ 1,000,000 (20.09.24 all done)
Breast Cancer Now 100 miles 1st May 2025 (18.05.2025 all done)
Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2025 to complete by end Sept 2025. 504,789 / 1,000,000Sun, Sea12 -
And posting in a thread no longer automatically bookmarks it....
ah well.
DW and Wm x 1Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily DickinsonJanice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear13 -
Morning all, approx two hours sleep last night, back to work and school today. We have snow, I hope it clears quickly.WM on, bed made, eating brekkie then we must go, have super days all xx12
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Morning all,
Thank you for the thread and for all the hard work that goes into it, especially with the new forum challenges. It’s very much appreciated x
I’ll be in as much as I can. It’s a full day at paid stuff and a busy calendar for the week. Back to school today which means back to job 2 later in the week, so deep joy there.
Another blustery day here. Keep warm and safe all.10 -
Morning xx
I've been laid in bed for an hour plotting and planning a la flylady - this can go there and that can go to cs, that sort of thingWhen I found myself composing a post I decided to get up, have a brew, and see what was happening in flylady-land. My name is Roundtuit and I am obsessed
There was a new red t shirt of DS's that needed washing - so I pulled out two red t shirts from the pile in my bedroom, and two from the dining end of the kitchen and all five are now swishingDS will make the decision, but I suspect at least 3 are destined for cs and what he wants to keep can go in his room! Every little helps
I know a lot of you have DWs - but those of you who WU by hand: where do you keep the dish cloth and rubber gloves in between WU sessions? (Asking for a friend lol)
Round 1 =
get washed and dressed
WUDUPA (two mugs and a pizza cutter lol)
feed the birds
put out the recycling
laundry shuffle
put books in bag for cs
put sundry items in bag for cs
breakfast
Back soon
Rxx
IT ONLY TAKES SMALL DAILY ACTIONSFOR MAGIC TO HAPPENRosemary Ikpeme11 -
Morning all. Hope you're all ok today.
Was planning a day out with DH but where we're going is snowing and here it is pouring with rain and there are flood warnings. It's taken half an hour to persuade the dogs to go out for a wee.
So I'll make a start on today's list.
Have a great day everyone.Spend less now, work less later.11 -
Hi again!
Just making second cuppa, already done my early meeting at the paid stuff. It didn’t last long, not sure anyone was really awake lol! Anyway, headache has cleared and I feel better.
dailies done
wm x 1 run and on the airer (raining again!)
just reloaded the machine with all the cleaning cloths from yesterday and set to swish again
will start my days work properly now, flying again later on.
bye for now x12
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