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The Nice People No. 17
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Cakeguts said:
What is the Arms?
Best to watch, NOT post, for at least a month, get the feel of the place. They pounce there quicker than somebody diving for the most packs of bog rolls in the supermarket coronavirus scrums.
If there's one place to go, where you can easily offend somebody ... it's there.5 -
PasturesNew said:Cakeguts said:
What is the Arms?
Best to watch, NOT post, for at least a month, get the feel of the place. They pounce there quicker than somebody diving for the most packs of bog rolls in the supermarket clearance scrums.
If there's one place to go, where you can easily offend somebody ... it's there.
Thank you. I didn't know that existed I will have a look.
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Cakeguts said:There is no honour to be had in not knowing a thing that can be known - Danny Baker5
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PasturesNew said:Cakeguts said:
What is the Arms?
Best to watch, NOT post, for at least a month, get the feel of the place. They pounce there quicker than somebody diving for the most packs of bog rolls in the supermarket coronavirus scrums.
If there's one place to go, where you can easily offend somebody ... it's there.
1) The Arms, which is a friendly place with some silly threads where you can have a right old laugh, a bit like being down the pub with friends.
2) Then there is a sub-board, Discussion Time, (DT), which can be very fierce at times, especially when there was a Brexit about, but since the onset of the V word, isn’t quite so bad, once you get used to recognising the Usual Suspects. It’s useful at the moment for picking up info about stats and stuff to do with the V word, again, once you have worked out who the Usual Suspects are so that you can ignore what they say.
Just recently, though, even DT, and even the Usual Suspects, have been quite good for a jolly old laugh. I’ve just had a really good laugh in there!
However, for anyone that’s a bit spectrumy, it might be politic, as Pastures said, to look and not comment for a while. Some of the Usual Suspects would eat a speshul for breakfast! Even wimpish old me got munched by one a few days ago! 😂
It’s all right though....I got spat out again! 😂😂😂(I just lurve spiders!)
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Her Greenliness Baroness Pyxis of the Alphabetty, Pinnacle of Peadom and Official Brainbox
Founder Member: 'WIMPS ANONYMOUS' and 'VICTIMS of the RANDOM HEDGEHOG'
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Too late both of you. I have been I have seen and I have posted. Haven't found the Discussion Board yet so I might be alright. If not it will just be another of those things that seemed like a good idea at the time and then turned out not to be. In any case it can't possibly be as bad as Facebook groups can it?
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Cakeguts said:Too late both of you. I have been I have seen and I have posted. Haven't found the Discussion Board yet so I might be alright. If not it will just be another of those things that seemed like a good idea at the time and then turned out not to be. In any case it can't possibly be as bad as Facebook groups can it?
But do be a wee bit careful in DT. Best to use lots of subjunctives and subjunctive substitutes if you want to dodge the piranhas or you might find you are missing a toe or ten! It’s a mixed bag in there at the mo..........probably about 70% Robin Hoods and 30% Sheriffs of Nottingham/Vlad the Impalers, but if you encounter a Sheriff Vlad, it might send you under the bed into a foetal position crying for mummy and sucking your thumb.
The Robin Hoods are ok, though. 🙂
I’ll keep an eye out for you and sharpen my two-metre spear, Cakeguts for the defending of.(I just lurve spiders!)
INFJ(Turbulent).
Her Greenliness Baroness Pyxis of the Alphabetty, Pinnacle of Peadom and Official Brainbox
Founder Member: 'WIMPS ANONYMOUS' and 'VICTIMS of the RANDOM HEDGEHOG'
I'm in a clique! It's a clique of one! It's a unique clique!
I love :eek:5 -
Pyxis said:Cakeguts said:Too late both of you. I have been I have seen and I have posted. Haven't found the Discussion Board yet so I might be alright. If not it will just be another of those things that seemed like a good idea at the time and then turned out not to be. In any case it can't possibly be as bad as Facebook groups can it?
But do be a wee bit careful in DT. Best to use lots of subjunctives and subjunctive substitutes if you want to dodge the piranhas or you might find you are missing a toe or ten! It’s a mixed bag in there at the mo..........probably about 70% Robin Hoods and 30% Sheriffs of Nottingham/Vlad the Impalers, but if you encounter a Sheriff Vlad, it might send you under the bed into a foetal position crying for mummy and sucking your thumb.
The Robin Hoods are ok, though. 🙂
I’ll keep an eye out for you and sharpen my two-metre spear, Cakeguts for the defending of.Pyxis said:Cakeguts said:Too late both of you. I have been I have seen and I have posted. Haven't found the Discussion Board yet so I might be alright. If not it will just be another of those things that seemed like a good idea at the time and then turned out not to be. In any case it can't possibly be as bad as Facebook groups can it?
But do be a wee bit careful in DT. Best to use lots of subjunctives and subjunctive substitutes if you want to dodge the piranhas or you might find you are missing a toe or ten! It’s a mixed bag in there at the mo..........probably about 70% Robin Hoods and 30% Sheriffs of Nottingham/Vlad the Impalers, but if you encounter a Sheriff Vlad, it might send you under the bed into a foetal position crying for mummy and sucking your thumb.
The Robin Hoods are ok, though. 🙂
I’ll keep an eye out for you and sharpen my two-metre spear, Cakeguts for the defending of.I have had a bit of a look and done a bit of deleting. The ones left can't really be got at. They aren't long enough.Facebook groups can be whole groups of Robin Hoods at first sight who then turn out to be all Vlads in disguise.When people turn out like that I can't be bothered. So I just leave.Nice to know about the spear. Do you think two metres will be long enough? I also think two might be better? One for each hand?No one would ever have been crying for my mother they would all be too busy running away from her as fast as possible.5 -
Pyxis said:There was a programme on a few years ago about how to survive.
Practical things like getting a room in a hotel that’s not above a certain number of floors...ie above the height that a fire brigade ladder could reach.
Things like, when you get to your hotel room, locate the fire exit and walk to it in terms of which way do you turn, how many steps to get to it etc., because in the dark and smoke you lose sense of direction. Walking it through helps to map it in your brain.
Stuff like that.
The difference between surviving or not.
Takes a few minutes but could save your life. Etc.
Anyway, what the programme said was that it is the people who are seen as being the ‘worriers’ who are the survivors; the ‘pessimists’, who see danger everywhere, who live.
Whereas the optimists who think that everything will be ok are the ones that get caught out.
Ok, sweeping generalisation, and extremes of either can be bad, but they had a point. It’s the being aware of the worst-case scenario and making reasonable preps to avoid it, without it taking over your life, natch, in a pro-active way.
For worrier, read warrior.
It's a bit time consuming though and I can get bogged down in it but it works for me and I find it frustrating that others may not have seen a potential downfall and worked through alternatives beforehand. The boys just think I am mad.....We made it! All three boys have graduated, it's been hard work but it shows there is a possibility of a chance of normal (ish) life after a diagnosis (or two) of ASD. It's not been the easiest route but I am so glad I ignored everything and everyone and did my own therapies with them.
Eldests' EDS diagnosis 4.5.10, mine 13.1.11 eekk - now having fun and games as a wheelchair user.6 -
Cakeguts quote...
“I have had a bit of a look and done a bit of deleting. The ones left can't really be got at. They aren't long enough.Facebook groups can be whole groups of Robin Hoods at first sight who then turn out to be all Vlads in disguise.When people turn out like that I can't be bothered. So I just leave.Nice to know about the spear. Do you think two metres will be long enough? I also think two might be better? One for each hand?No one would ever have been crying for my mother they would all be too busy running away from her as fast as possible.”
Two metres is the Government directive.
Not sure if that’s radius or diameter though - the directive didn’t specify.
The mother from hell, eh?
Ok , I’ll concede you the Mother from Hell if I can be Best Worrier.
(Before you answer...remember,,,,I’m the one with the Spear).(I just lurve spiders!)
INFJ(Turbulent).
Her Greenliness Baroness Pyxis of the Alphabetty, Pinnacle of Peadom and Official Brainbox
Founder Member: 'WIMPS ANONYMOUS' and 'VICTIMS of the RANDOM HEDGEHOG'
I'm in a clique! It's a clique of one! It's a unique clique!
I love :eek:6
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