2020 - 'Nothing in your life will change until you make the decision to change'

pennywisepoundstupid

Sending hugs, take care of yourself xx

girlatplay

jwil said:

I haven't posted for ages.  I've been struggling a bit.

Thought I'd better find myself again on the new layout otherwise I'll be lost forever  I've got to find everyone's diaries again too.  I so miss the daily email digests, I hope they bring them back.

Will catch up properly soon.

I thought I'd lost you.  I'm having problems with the new format on my phone.  Glad to know you are still around.  Sorry to hear you've been struggling.  Sending virtual hugs xx

beanielou

Keep plodding 

Kitten868

I'm finding the layout something to get used to too. 
Glad the water aerobics went well. Really good for you to have that time for yourself too. 
I think given the weather just put stuff outside today and let Storm Ciara take it all. I've been resisting the urge with all of eldests cuddly toys. 
Keep going. I hope you're going to get some spare money this month to put in your pots xxx 

savingholmes

Hi JWIL sorry you've been feeling down. The time of year probably isn't helping - or this weather. Do you have any hobbies you could resurrect to have fun? Are you still doing the aqua aerobics? Is there anyone that you could swap babysitting with so you could perhaps have at least 1 date night together each month without having to pay someone on top?

jwil

BalanceBy50 said:

so sorry you are struggling. Sending you lots of love and all the strength in the world to get through it quickly. I love your diary and can identify totally with you and your situation 😘xx

Aww thank you xxx

jwil

pennywisepoundstupid said:

Sending hugs, take care of yourself xx

Thank you lovely xxx

girlatplay said:

I thought I'd lost you.  I'm having problems with the new format on my phone.  Glad to know you are still around.  Sorry to hear you've been struggling.  Sending virtual hugs xx

I think I've lost myself lol.  It's hard navigating on here, though I don't dislike the look.  I just don't have the energy! xxx

beanielou said:

Keep plodding 

Thank you lovely xxx

jwil

Kitten868 said:

I'm finding the layout something to get used to too. 
Glad the water aerobics went well. Really good for you to have that time for yourself too. 
I think given the weather just put stuff outside today and let Storm Ciara take it all. I've been resisting the urge with all of eldests cuddly toys. 
Keep going. I hope you're going to get some spare money this month to put in your pots xxx 

Haha, I love that idea.  I didn't see that in time for Ciara, but I might do it for Dennis   Cuddly toys are my nemesis too!

savingholmes said:

Hi JWIL sorry you've been feeling down. The time of year probably isn't helping - or this weather. Do you have any hobbies you could resurrect to have fun? Are you still doing the aqua aerobics? Is there anyone that you could swap babysitting with so you could perhaps have at least 1 date night together each month without having to pay someone on top?

Thank you   No the time of year probably isn't helping.  Looking forward to spring.  I'm still doing aqua aerobics, and enjoying it.  About to head out now.   I have lots of hobbies, but just struggling with finding the time for anything other than work and dealing with stuff at home.  I don't know anyone I could swap babysitting with, my friend lives 90 mins away and I don't want other people in the house.  It's a good idea though and one for when the house is a bit clearer.  Thank you!

doingitanyway

Just caught up and sorry to hear you are feeling down. You will be up again and in the meantime be kind to yourself. Sending a hug.

savingholmes

Hi JWIL glad you are doing the aqua aerobics still. I find my MH suffers more if I don't make time for fun / play.