Partner Borrowing Without Asking WWYD?

calleyw

I like the way the op's partner is getting jumped on. But the op by her own admission never looks at the account apart from when a quarterly statement comes in.


If your budgets are that tight then you should be checking the account on at least a weekly basis if not more often. Rather than just leaving it to your partner.


Seems you want to blame him for everything but have not been proactive and nipping it the bud before it becomes an issue and you are running out of money.

Yes the Op's partner should not have been dipping in to the joint account without permission but its done now and you need to sort it. But over reacting with I can never trust him again is not going to help. He admits be messed up and wants to pay it back in to the account.


Work forwards and not backwards.



Yours


Calley x

NaughtiusMaximus

Man_From_Bath wrote: »

Well i still think its a major obsession posting 30,000 times, and breaking it down to 7 posts per day for 12 years to me is a clear addiction.

It's a way of passing the time, like watching TV, gardening, reading or in your case, denigrating random strangers on the internet.

ska_lover

How is it going, OP, did you manage to speak to him?