New me New start, Pania's positive Progress!

Lemon_Tree

PS if you need to bend someone's ear you have my number

Sea78

Hugs Pania - good for you setting the groundrules now.

Sea xxxx

hypno06

You ok, hun?

xx

SarahNeedle1872

Big hugs for you Pania, life would be so much cheaper if the men in our lives just sorted their admin out like we do (present company excepted of course!)

Sarah x

pania

yeah i'm good thanks guys, sitting upstairs in the study out of each others way. No other issues that i know of ISOM if you catch me drift!! just wish soo much that he could appreciate what I try to do for us financially and all the little things it involves.
Had a conversation tonight about it and how he should switch accounts to one that won't allow him to go over his overdraft as that is just plain crazy. he can even get cash out the machine when over his limit! just got in return a "we'll see". Theres absolutely no effort being made at all ISOM, I have taken back so many bills to help out, he's not even running a car anymore so is in a much better financial situation than when we moved in together, esp with the new job, it is the bank charges that are crippling him and that is just very very poor financial management. still anyway i'm not going to start moaning and ranting again else i may as well go back to my old diary! :-) i'm better than this and can keep moving forward so that is what i shall do!!. The groundrules are set and that is what i shall stick with.

LT ferrets cold isn't too bad thanks hon, glad to hear puss is getting better to!! and SArahneedle i sometimes think the world would be much better without men, full stop! but we do need them for some things i guess he he ;-)

Hugs to all...

P
xxx

lunar

Pania, sending you hugs, it must be so hard that you had your LBM and he hasnt, stick to your guns, he will have to come around. glad you are still staying so positive.

pania

hey Lunar!!! how are you? hope everything is going well?

Yup feeling much better than little miss angry yesterday, had a v early night and got my nose stuck into wuthering heights for best part of hr and half! a nice bit of me time with a fab book, feeling much more relaxed today. And have had an email requesting i do a 270,000 mortgage for someone!! yahoo!!! That'll be nice in the paypacket come feb and help a tad towards the challenge perhaps!!

not much more news from pania land today, went to the lovely hypno's for a coffee this morn (or tea for me, coffee=anaphylaxis!!!) (sp?) and we had a cracking "set the world to rights" gas, was great.
Up at site at the moment getting some work done, is nice to be out of the house with a change of scenery and someone to chat to! even had a cup of tea and home made mince pie too!! wooo!!!
Well bit concerned as my commission is drying up a tad right now on behalf of the market being a little quiet. Have just this second spoken to job man and he wants me to go in and meet the MD next week, yay! SO need to get ebaying, matched betting, quidcoing and defo sign up with the mystery shopping people again so as i can get that income topped up and meet my target!!

hypno06

Ohh, bring us back mince pie :xmassmile

huxley

Hi chin up I am a long time lurker and not very often poster, dont loose your positive side, my OH has been a long time sufferer of pps (peter pan syndrome!) and as much as I tighten the belt he loosens his but you are a real positive inspiration for people like me and you should give your self a big pat on the back because even if our OH's dont tow the line how much worse off would we be if we took the easy route.

pania

Morning Huxley, thankyou for that hon was a really lovely post. I know what you mean re loosening the belt! mine would go round a victorian in a VERY tight corset whereas his is so loose it would go round even father christmas twice!!! The easy route doesn't even bare considering, god i couldn't go back to all that hassle again, no way!

Well goodmorning from and incredibly cold, nasty, freezing Norfolk. Is blinking horrible here this morning so i am remaining tucked up in my bed with a nice hot cup of tea and shall do some work here until, oh about 10 maybe!!! The joyous wonders of laptops and wireless internet!!!

Well after my whingy moany few days I am back on form with the positivity type stuff. OH redeemed himself very slightly yesterday evening, I had been out at work all day and didn't get in til gone 8, to find dinner waiting for me and the washing up done, think someone is trying to make amends, bless.

So another day of debt busting dawns. I have been shamed by other threads into atleast making an attempt to get my christmas cards written today and posted, i'm going to head over to the gambling loopholes board and see what is up for grabs and see what else i can do that is money saving or money earning!

Aside from that I have lots of work to get done so must get up to speed with it.

Oh and work have cancelled my time off, stating that "My need and desire to maintain my earnings means that my time would be better spent working than taking holiday!!" GAH GAH GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

Still, can't let the !!!!!!s get you down hey!!! I'm off from 21st over christmas and on the 28th and 29th so thats a bit of rest atleast. It just means when i get a week off i shall enjoy it more!!!!

Right, off for a cuppa then to get some work done. Hugs, P xxx