New me New start, Pania's positive Progress!

hypno06

yeah, right.

Well done for having sorted all of that stuff out - bet you feel very pleased with yourself.

Have a good evening and sleep well x

Lemon_Tree

back here after lovely weekend with OH, shame he had to go back, it's just not fair!
Have listed loads in ebay, the dvd shelf is looking barer and have a load to post tomorrow.
Thanks for your email Pania i'll reply tomorrow think we've made the decision just need to sleep on it.

In_Search_Of_Me

wow a whirr of action! Well done you! Sorry you've bee having a tough time RS! I assume ferretts are cats not actual ferrets? Just want to clarify...not that I have anything against ferretts, although they do pong a bit!! Must on rest of Christmas shopping to do! Can relate to bedroom! My resembles a shop come chinese laundry at present!

pania

nope ISOM is a real live ferret, but a real cutie though! he can pong very occasionally, we have to bath him and clean him out thoroughly twice a week! keeps him smelling sweet, bless.

Took aaaaages to do the bedroom yesterday but looks fabby now!! woo!! was shattered at the end of it all though, did you have a good weekend? don't even start me on christmas shopping! done a bit but have had to bail OH out AGAIN so that has used up all my money for the rest of the month til payday, grrrr. Right i guess i really should get some work done!
Hope you are ok
Hugs.

pania

Lemon_Tree wrote: »

back here after lovely weekend with OH, shame he had to go back, it's just not fair!
Have listed loads in ebay, the dvd shelf is looking barer and have a load to post tomorrow.
Thanks for your email Pania i'll reply tomorrow think we've made the decision just need to sleep on it.

Hello you, weekends are always over so quickly aren't they which is a shame. glad that you had a good one though and hope you are looking forward to the next one!!:D just think, one day soon he won't have to go home, you will be his home how nice a thought is that!;)

Fab news on the ebay, i promised Blackangel i'd list 4 things a night til it was all done, oops:o

No worries re the PM, happy to help hon,
Hope puss is ok. xxx

pania

I want to rant i want to rave I want to shout and yell and scream :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

But what good what that do me, how would that be positive, How is that sidestepping the brown smelly stuff and carrying on?

so one sentence, then it shall be lifted off my shoulders, the brown stuff stepped around and on we go with positivity and happiness.;)


I HATE MEN!!!!!!!! (well one in particular)
I know it's my fault for CONTINUously bailing him out of trouble but I have just paid yet ANOTHER £70 into his account, making a grand runnin total of £167 THIS MONTH ALONE!!!:mad: :mad: :mad:

We had serious words yesterday and i have told him one more month of going over his overdraft limit and he is out. that money could've come off my debt and i just am sick to the back teeth of bailing him out and being used as an open wallet. I have just £60 left til payday now for petrol and any sundries we may need when i try sooooo hard each month to stay in credit and get my debt down as much as i can. I should have ended this month with £200 still in my account which would've felt soooo good and the first time in years i'd have done that. He is learning from this lesson or we are through. done dusted period. Now i am stronger, happier and much much less reliant on having a partner i can say that with confidence and contentment.;)

So a big deep breath, and as my mum used to say, a big sigh, a big smile, and onto the next thing. I only want brightness in my life from now on god.... gottit!!!!:D

Sorry for the rant but this really is the only place i can get things like this off my chest. sorry. xxx

The_Dragon

Oh Pania - huge cyber hugs coming your way hun!

redsquirrel80

Aww P.. hugs.. I think ranting is more positive than keeping it all in.. hope you sort it out, he doesn't know how lucky he is! xx

In_Search_Of_Me

aww hugs for you! Is it just the money or are there other "issues"? Not sure of your cirumstances...very frustrating for you though when youre trying so hard...is he making ANY effort to manage his money or does he just see you at the source of all problem money solving?
Aside from that any news on the job front? Weekends go so fast dont they - just wish weekdays went as quickly sometimes!!

Lemon_Tree

Pania, hugs sorry to hear what you're stuggling through. I can understand your frustration fingers crossed that this is the lesson learnt.

When i started reading i thought what's her boss doing this time? guess i got that wrong.

Puss isnt' too bad, how's the ferrits cold doing?