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Snaggles

Oh no Pania, I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say really, you must be feeling a bit shellshocked so I will just send you a big (((hug))) and say that I know you will get through this, and hopefully your next employer will be much more appreciative of you, and wont make you jump through financial hoops every two minutes.

Good luck with the job hunting and take care - keep us updated on how you are doing if you can. And don't be away too long.

ampersand

hypno06 wrote: »

Hi all.....

Tis P here on hypno's log in.

Had my internet disconnected by work today and have been told that i am being made redundant. feel a bit rubbish but determined to get through this with as much strength and positivity as i can muster....

Special thanks to you Hypno for scraping me up when i was in bits earlier and giving me a kind boot up the backside (and an internet to use for a while to jobhunt!!) I thank my lucky stars the day i moved to Norfolk and found you as a friend. xxx

May not be around much peeps due to internet issue and job hunting but will update as and when i can. Big hugs and hope you are all ok. xxx

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Okay pania -

Whāia te iti kahurangi
Ki te tūohu koe, me he maunga teitei
Pursue excellence – should you stumble, let it be to a lofty mountain
It's too soon for you to recognise the beautiful symmetry of your two millstones being put asunder simultaneously.
May is YOUR Month - which you may remember as the month you were set free.
You were applying for another job - look to this pursuit without a backward glance - only your pay-off and redundancy need connect you to this shower of a company AND HAVE IT DOUBLE-CHECKED BY AN EXPERT.
The very fact of their summary disconnection of your Internet, ahead of any formal notice or warning, is sufficient pointer to how they'll act with regard to what is due to you.
DON'T LET THEM PUT ANYTHING OVER YOU, pania.
No soul-destroying emotion, no misplaced loyalty, no 'broken career' regrets need sully your onward positive journey from now on.
Remember your Thread Title.
YOU ARE ABOUT TO BE EXTRAORDINARILY FREE.
It's a blessing pure and simple, not in disguise.
We've met just once - but that was sufficient to tell me you were on the wrong end of too many takers, losers and users.
You are a lovely girl(from my old crone-perspective), natural, intelligent, pretty, principled, very savvy financially and VAIRY employable thus - in fact, an all-round COMPANY ASSET & WINNER-IN-WAITING in the All-Round Stakes of Life!
So there!

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Snaggles

*Adds name to the petition*

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redsquirrel80

Snaggles wrote: »

*Adds name to the petition*

:T :T :T

Ditto. Ampersand you are a very wise lady

The_Dragon

Wow Pania! That is horrid news, I know you wanted out but not like this! As has been stated check any redundancy payout! check your contract and see what they have to pay you (by law they need to pay you a month in lieu of notice, but your contract may have other things they have to pay you)

Check in with us when you can and Hypno please keep us posted!

Surfbabe

Aw Pania - another kick in the butt for you. Hope things work out in the end - think of it as a new beginning all round.

Hugs

ZTD

Me too as well as....

jinky67

And me...sorry to hear it

mumoftwins

Hi Pania,

Had phone call from Ampersand a while ago telling me your news. I'm so sorry, if there is anything I can do even just a phone call for you to have a moan please let me know! Hope things work out for you, take care xx

mizmir

Oh Pania! Just logged on for the first time since this morning - what a shock for you. But ampersand has wise words .... now you can put energy into that new job possibility - and take steps to do what you really want to do. Glad you have hypno close. Keep us posted when you can. This may feel like a disaster - but it could just turn out to be the start of a really good phase in your life. Big hugs.