Giving up/ Cutting Down Alcohol Thread Part 16

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  • pollyanna24
    pollyanna24 Posts: 4,370 Forumite
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    Up to 160! Yay!

    I have been tempted this week, but like so many others say, once I've had dinner and had a cup of tea, the temptation just goes. My parents mind my kids and I have said to my dad to just make me a cup of tea without asking as if I have the cup in front of me, I am likely to drink it and then be less likely to then open a bottle. I know this sounds a bit demanding of me, haha, but he always makes tea after dinner. He has been tee total for a fair few years now and can't understand why I like drinking!

    I will drink tonight though as I haven't all week. I have to pick up my daughter from a birthday party after work. It is meant to be a sleepover, but she doesn't cope well with sleepovers and so I am getting her at about 6pm. Part of me feels bad that I'm not planning on getting her at more like 8pm or 9pm (because I want that drink I've been waiting for all week), but she will have had a few hours at the party after school.
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  • Honey_Bear
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    loveasale wrote: »
    Are you a local candidate HB ?

    An Agent, which is where the electoral law buck stops so it's involved and a bit scary, but that's okay because I've had the training fairly recently and I've got a lot of people to refer back to if things get complicated. (I'm usually a candidate in local elections in wards where we as a party can't possibily win. I don't want to be a councillor but I do want to give people who support our party the option to vote for us.) If you're at all interested in politics, and I know some people aren't, this election matters, so I can't sit by and just let it unfold without doing something to help. I desparetly don't want to get into a dingdong on this thread about the rights and wrongs of where we are at the moment regarding politics.

    I met Ann Widdecombe last week at a briefing session for candidates and agents; pefectly pleasant even though we're involved with different parties. At a Brexit Summit in 2017 I met an agent for one of the parties and we get on really, really well. It's all very polite even if we believe completely different things and that's exactly as it should be. I hope it stays that way over the next few weeks, locally and nationally.

    That's it, I'm signing off for a few weeks. See you all on the other side.
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  • shaggydoo
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    cathybird wrote: »
    Some people spoke highly of "Those Who Kill", which was on BBC Four not so long ago, but it was too dark for me, I stopped watching.


    I think I have that recorded on my TiVo box, though I haven't got round to watching it yet. If it's too dark though I won't enjoy it either.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    sukeyboo wrote: »
    Have a lovely time in Amsterdam Maman :T


    Yes have a marvelous time in Amsterdam!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    Honey_Bear wrote: »
    I'm very, very busy with the general election so I may not be around much for a few weeks.


    Me too HB (I suspect we are working for the same team :)) so, if I disappear at any point rest assured I'll be back!

    Honey_Bear wrote: »
    That's it, I'm signing off for a few weeks. See you all on the other side.


    Oh but I'm not signing off completely....I'll be around every few days if I can.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    November 2019


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  • Barny1979
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    21/23 AFDs today. fly out to Benidorm tomorrow evening :)
  • shaggydoo
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    Barny1979 wrote: »
    21/23 AFDs today. fly out to Benidorm tomorrow evening :)


    Enjoy!........
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • cathybird
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    Honey_Bear wrote: »
    If you're at all interested in politics, and I know some people aren't, this election matters, so I can't sit by and just let it unfold without doing something to help. I desparetly don't want to get into a dingdong on this thread about the rights and wrongs of where we are at the moment regarding politics.

    Honey Bear, I agree with you absolutely about the importance of this election and I know what you mean about wanting to avoid a dingdong but I wish there was room to discuss it because it does really matter. Having said that this really isn't the place for it (sadly) but I wish it was. Along with Shaggy I think we're involved with the same party!
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