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Buffy's 30 Month Plan

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  • crazy_cat_lady
    crazy_cat_lady Posts: 7,063 Forumite
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    Enjoy today Buffy. I really admire you taking that risk - so brave, and it's paid off :D
    Not giving up
    Working hard to pay off my debt
    Time to take back control
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6290156/crazy-cat-lady-chapter-5-trying-to-recover-from-the-pandemic/p1?new=1
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,519 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Enjoy xxx
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    I am just going to sit here and eat matchmakers.

    I am not on my date, he isn't well :(:(

    I don't think he is lying or anything suss. He sounded disappointed and wants to reschedule. But then he had to go :( somewhat suddenly.

    SO whilst I don't feel terrible I don't feel great either.

    At least I am watching Billions. That show is so good.

    Like SO GOOD. I love it.

    But I would so rather be with him.
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,519 Ambassador
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    Boo, boo, boo.
    Hopefully soon then :(
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    beanielou wrote: »
    Boo, boo, boo.
    Hopefully soon then :(


    Exactly Beanie. I feel like a kid who has had their favourite toy taken away but can't moan about it cos I am a big girl.

    Oh Well.
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 9,930 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    Sorry the date tonight did not work out.
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 100/1000
    Buffer fund 0/100
    Debt Free (again) 25/072025
  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    Booo to having to stay in tonight, but hurrah for a date with the manners to cancel politely and the sense to be disappointed about missing you!
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • in_need_of_direction
    in_need_of_direction Posts: 7,716 Forumite
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    Stop eating matchmakers
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    Sorry fully appreciate that this should be about money
    Well I don't have any!

    Been texting the crush this evening no sign of a date tho. We are doing what we have done for months basically which is be friends which is lovely but not what I want.

    I such a wreck sitting here. ridiculous.

    Please Just suggest we meet. PLEASE.

    had the most awful headache and this lack of decision/outcome is not helping.

    Right I am going to make a cup of tea and get to bed.
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • RosaBernicia
    RosaBernicia Posts: 4,909 Forumite
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    Er, can't you suggest meeting? Since he did say he wanted to reschedule and you have a life to get on with, and need to organise when he might be privileged with space in your diary?



    Sorry that doesn't sound terribly empathic - but it's not an unreasonable question, if he didn't mean it he shouldn't have said it and if he backs off then at least you'll know you can stop wasting time on him. And he just might be waiting for you to suggest it... ?



    Good luck



    RB xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
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