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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,538 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Well done on all the charity stuff :) xx
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  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    Ok.........

    So.

    I texted the Crush. It is not my normal behaviour but it occurred to me that my normal behaviour hasn't got me anywhere and the two people who I admire most in the world regarding relationships and taking risks would have texted - not excessively but at least once to make sure.

    So I did.

    And he answered immediately. And I am seeing him on Sunday Night.

    I just like him and I don't like many people. well I mean men. I like lots of people. And I do believe we are friends. I don't know what will happen but I want to take the risk.

    And if it all goes to !!!! well I will be at work and super busy which is good.

    XXXXXXXXX
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Pooky
    Pooky Posts: 7,023 Forumite
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    So so so so pleased you stepped outside your comfort zone and did this! Hope you have a lovely time.
    "Start every day off with a smile and get it over with" - W. C. Field.
  • Sun_Addict
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    Nothing ventured nothing gained. Even if you end up just friends at least you've tried. Enjoy your night out xx
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • in_need_of_direction
    in_need_of_direction Posts: 7,718 Forumite
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    You know exactly how I feel
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • Honeysucklelou2
    Honeysucklelou2 Posts: 4,804 Forumite
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    It might be easier for you to develop/build a relationship when you're not working at the same school if that makes sense.

    Hope you have a lovely evening together on Sunday,
    paydbx2025 #26 £890/£5000 . Mortgage start £148k June 23 - now £138k.
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  • RosaBernicia
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    Oh brilliant Buffy I am so pleased you did :T:T (so pleased I have just scared the poor cat on my lap :rotfl:)

    Much better to take a little risk and be sure than to miss out because of some ridiculous 'rule'. Wherever it goes you did a brave thing and you didn't give up on someone important to you. All good.

    Glad you had a good lunch and successful decluttering.


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,538 Ambassador
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    Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy :D xx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    :rotfl: Really sorry about the cat Rosa.
    Thank you everyone. XXX means a lot.

    today has been a lovely day mainly because I spent much of out of the house and thinking.

    I went to church, the bakers, New Look, my friends cake sale (so good to see her) shopping, visiting, more shopping, a drive and home.

    I bought new nail vanish, primer, a foot mask, and hair dye. Can't imagine why can you?

    I am shattered. In a good way. I wanted to dye my hair tonight. And paint my toes, well toe nails but my aim is somewhat off.

    Also my room is not finished and I am busy forever now. Hmm.

    XX
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,026 Forumite
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    Ooh Buffy's getting all glammed up :)

    I hate painting my toe nails, it's so fiddly. I'm considering having gel colour on my toes just for summer, lasts up to 6 weeks on toes. I had it done for my hols yesterday so might get it redone when it grows out.

    Enjoy your date tonight, we'll be expecting a detailed report on Monday :rotfl:
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
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