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Secret Santa - don’t want to do it!

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  • Sea_Shell
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    Christmas pudding shower cap!!!! Wow, how thoughtful of them. Bin is the only option.
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  • svain
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    Isn't secret Santa meant to be a bit of fun?? .... why would anyone be disappointed in their gift ... whether its rubbish or not, some people really do lack a sense of humour
  • Tigsteroonie
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    We emailed the team, 2 people opted out. Nobody was offended.
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  • svain wrote: »
    Isn't secret Santa meant to be a bit of fun?? .... why would anyone be disappointed in their gift ... whether its rubbish or not, some people really do lack a sense of humour


    It wasn't meant to be a joke Secret Santa, out of 14 of us 11 got lovely presents and 3 got nasty, cheap tat. If you'd spent £15 and bought some nice things would you really think a Christmas pudding shower cap was great?
  • Kim_kim
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    One of the teams where I work did a £5 secret Santa charity shop.
    I thought it was a great idea, even if it was tat, at least it was to a good cause. Plus with the charity shop you might get great value for your £5. And it’s green!
  • svain
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    It wasn't meant to be a joke Secret Santa, out of 14 of us 11 got lovely presents and 3 got nasty, cheap tat. If you'd spent £15 and bought some nice things would you really think a Christmas pudding shower cap was great?

    The problem is the budget, making it £15 changes the dynamics and causes the problem. £5-£10 max .... then it matters less what you get
  • svain wrote: »
    The problem is the budget, making it £15 changes the dynamics and causes the problem. £5-£10 max .... then it matters less what you get



    £5 is more throwaway, I still think unless it is set up as a joke secret santa you would get something nice, even jokey things can be nice and if you actually spend the £5 and someone gives you something that obviously cost £1 you would still think that wasn't in the spirit of the thing.
  • GBNI
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    My current office don't do a secret Santa, but a previous office did. I had to pick for a lady that was part of my section and I took ages getting a bottle of wine of a type she liked in an off license that luckily had it on offer then a Terry's Chocolate Orange to make up the last bit of money (yes, that bit was a cop out but who doesn't like a Terry's? :D) and she whinged that the person who got her it had put no thought into it :( I didn't partake in SS again after that.
  • We did our secret santa today

    I dont normally 'do' Christmas, but wanted to enjoy the office fun

    It was really lovely. Everyone was smiling, and a really fun thing to do for a few quid (even though I am a christmas grinch)

    PS one person opted out, but once again no one was offended or gave it a thought whatsoever, other than me typing this lol
    With love, POSR <3
  • GBNI wrote: »
    My current office don't do a secret Santa, but a previous office did. I had to pick for a lady that was part of my section and I took ages getting a bottle of wine of a type she liked in an off license that luckily had it on offer then a Terry's Chocolate Orange to make up the last bit of money (yes, that bit was a cop out but who doesn't like a Terry's? :D) and she whinged that the person who got her it had put no thought into it :( I didn't partake in SS again after that.

    Oh dear that is awful, I can see why you opted out. Your present was very thoughtful for secret santa

    I know the person who got my present enjoyed it, I saw him playing with it and having a few laughs. In my workplace it is more fun, jokey things that people get, no one really takes it seriously, but I was over the moon with my gift
    With love, POSR <3
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