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Busy Mee's Last Leg

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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,697 Ambassador
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    I am heavily involved with our local foodbank & it’s manic. 
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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  • Suffolk_lass
    Suffolk_lass Posts: 10,311 Forumite
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    I hope you have a video call system set up with your FIL - I was just thinking how hard it must be, having lost your MIL relatively recently. My Mum commented how busy she is with calls at the moment, with all the pals she normally sees at the coffee shop, separately calling each other to catch up. Men are much more likely to wait for a call then initiate it (well, if my DH is anything like a normal chap!). My sis is my Mum's carer so they managed to install Zoom on her tablet. We had a few issues setting it going but I know she really enjoys the video chat, which has replaced the 'not dead yet' texts every morning. That reminds me, I must go and call... Happy Easter weekend and enjoy your weekend
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £4863.32 out of £6000 after May (81.05%)
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £1286.68/£3000 or 42.89% of my annual spend so far
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
    My new diary is here
  • Busy_Mee
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    Beanie you are just amazing  o:) When I retire I am going to volunteer, if there is one thing that this has taught me, it is food insecurity is awful  and this is where I want to give my time. In the meantime I will continue to donate.

    SL we haven't set FIL up with any kind of video call. He is not that good digitally and doesn't have a smart phone.  He is well blessed with calls though, we ring him everyday and so does BIL. He also has five grandchildren and other assorted relatives who ring him regularly. In fact he was getting quite grumpy because he was out in the garden and he kept having to come in because the phone kept ringing  :o He actually seems quite chipper at the moment, mainly because the weather is good and he can get out in the garden. One of our nephews who lives nearby and his neighbours are fetching anything he needs.

    My parents aren't doing so well. They are really bored as they are normally very sociable and out and about. Dad is in one of shielding categories so is totally locked down. They are getting lots of calls and they are a bit more technically savvy. They have downloaded the audio version of the Daily Fail ( should be banned from the homes of all old folk imo :/ ) but they like it ! 

    I have also been pointing them in the direction of anything they might enjoy watching or reading. This week they have been enjoying the Gary Barlow duets on Faceache.

    I am having a doorstep delivery of flowers for them. A local flower farmer offered to deliver flowers locally because the local farmers markets where they planned to sell are closed. I am hoping these will bring them a lot of pleasure. They will be some quite unusual varieties of tulips and other spring flowers.
  • beanielou
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    Flowers sound fabulous. 
    I love tulips. 
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Suffolk_lass
    Suffolk_lass Posts: 10,311 Forumite
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    edited 11 April 2020 at 8:35AM
    How lovely. I sent my Mum a three month subscription while there was little in the garden, so just Jan, Feb and March to give her a little lift once a month, ending on my birthday.

    Oh dear, here I am indoors on a beautiful morning. Off now. Have fun!
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £4863.32 out of £6000 after May (81.05%)
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £1286.68/£3000 or 42.89% of my annual spend so far
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
    My new diary is here
  • savingholmes
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    Have fun even?
    Nice that you can send flowers. I sent flowers and chocs for mother's day. I may see if they have a local garden centre that's delivering as real plants would cheer my parents up - they too are shielding as are we as much as poss. 
    Busy-Mee on the food budget and staying stocked up - I think that is just common sense.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • savingholmes
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    We are still doing the Easter egg hunt LOL - my kids are 16 and 22! Have a lovely day. 
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,697 Ambassador
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    YOu were lucky to get the refund from Jet 2 so easily.
    My mum was to fly with KLM next month & they are adamant she wont get a refund.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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