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20/20 Vision (repaying a debt to my home and myself)

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  • beanielou
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    Baby steps.
    Keep plodding :)
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  • Take time out to give yourself a major clap on the back. You’ve had disappointments and upsets but you’re still dealing with the world. You’re doing brilliantly
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • System
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    Nice to see you back DIA. Sorry to hear about your relative, at least you managed to see them in the last year.

    If anyone can come up with a plan for your future it's you . I say things happen for a reason, you didn't enjoy your work so maybe it's time to re-evaluate and go forward.

    Have a good weekend.
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  • doingitanyway
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    Good luck with the PPI claim, I hope it pays out.
    You do have a lot on your plate at the moment, so hopefully things will seem clearer soon.
    beanielou wrote: »
    Baby steps.
    Keep plodding :)
    Take time out to give yourself a major clap on the back. You’ve had disappointments and upsets but you’re still dealing with the world. You’re doing brilliantly
    Thank you everyone :)
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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  • doingitanyway
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    Nice to see you back DIA. Sorry to hear about your relative, at least you managed to see them in the last year.

    If anyone can come up with a plan for your future it's you . I say things happen for a reason, you didn't enjoy your work so maybe it's time to re-evaluate and go forward.

    Have a good weekend.
    Thanks Cumbria. I agree it will be a good time to revaluate.
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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  • doingitanyway
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    My lovely relative died of cancer so I decided to take up a screening that I had previously turned down as being too embarrassing. That is a silly attitude, so yesterday I spoke to the screening centre and will have the test in May.

    I was successful with one of my travel refunds. Only £17 but that has gone towards the car insurance fund. I’ll do the other one at work next week

    PPI form posted (I couldn’t find the energy yesterday)

    Tonight I did my eyebrows (saving £7). I also gave myself a facial. My face looks much better.

    I got on top of (some of) the mess in the house and did some ironing.

    Tomorrow is busy with calls and funeral prep so by the time I check in here next the funeral will be over and I can shift my focus to finding out more about my work situation.

    Hope you are all well out there
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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  • Hope you get through the funeral as ok as you can be
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • Homegrown0
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    Oh DIA, you have so much on your plate at the moment. I really hope you get some clarity and a plan in place soon so that you can get back into your groove.

    I'm so sorry to hear about your relative - I hope the funeral goes well today and you manage to say your goodbyes. Thinking of you.

    On the job front - scary as it is, i think you might be able to use this as an opportunity to really decide what your next move is. If you had to take the leap to leave your job, you might never do it but when the decision is made for you then you are forced to make some tough choices and do some hard thinking. Ok, maybe time isn't on your side and you need to make sure you have some money coming in but I have no doubt that you'll come up with a good plan. How long do you have until you leave?

    Fingers crossed on the PPI!
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  • I hope the funeral goes as well as these things can.

    Well done on having the screening, they can be embarassing but it's definitely worth having them. Well done on posting the PPI form too :).
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  • doingitanyway
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    Hope you get through the funeral as ok as you can be
    Thanks INOD. Just glad it is over.
    Homegrown0 wrote: »
    Oh DIA, you have so much on your plate at the moment. I really hope you get some clarity and a plan in place soon so that you can get back into your groove.

    I'm so sorry to hear about your relative - I hope the funeral goes well today and you manage to say your goodbyes. Thinking of you.

    On the job front - scary as it is, i think you might be able to use this as an opportunity to really decide what your next move is. If you had to take the leap to leave your job, you might never do it but when the decision is made for you then you are forced to make some tough choices and do some hard thinking. Ok, maybe time isn't on your side and you need to make sure you have some money coming in but I have no doubt that you'll come up with a good plan. How long do you have until you leave?

    Fingers crossed on the PPI!
    Wise words as always Homegrown. Thank you. I won't know the details until I have a consultation meeting next week. The timing isn't great but I am already starting to see the many positives in this situation.
    I hope the funeral goes as well as these things can.
    Well done on having the screening, they can be embarassing but it's definitely worth having them. Well done on posting the PPI form too :).
    Thanks HH. I am going to plan a nice treat for straight after the horrible screening :)
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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