Prosperous soul in the making

mark55man

good luck SH - sounds like you are keeping the lawyers out of it which is good!!

savingholmes

Doing our best to agree amongst selves and confirm via legal... Really hoping it goes as smoothly as possible. Both trying keep costs low so we minimise future mortgage debt

Grogged

Sorry to hear your news. I hope everyone is ok and DS/DD are understanding.
However amicable it is it must be difficult for you all now.
It was a brave decision to make and share.
Take care of yourself and the family, G.

MovingForwards

Keep sorting things between yourself as it will be less stressful and helps retain a civil relationship.
Maybe the valuer will do a desktop one and not attend your home.

When things are more settled do explore the glasswork as your first piece has worked well.

DancingInTheRain

Sending love & strength at what must be a challenging time.
Take care of you x

hugglemonster

Sorry to hear your news but obviously right for you both, perhaps it's been a factor in you being so unsettled over the last few weeks. 

I hope the process is not stressful and you can move on with the next part of your life.

Keep looking after yourself, H x

SandyShores

Just popping in to echo everyone else's sentiments SH.  It can't have been an easy decision to make, but you can start the process of moving on now.  Take Care, Sandy x

savingholmes

Thanks guys for your continued support. 

Well I filled a bin bag and charity bag today with stuff I was decluttering. Sadly though I knocked some oil over my bedsheets and it soaked through the mattress protector onto the mattress. I've managed to turn the offending part of the mattress and tried to blot it up with paper towels - but not sure I'll manage to get the oil out of the sheets. Luckily I found an old mattress protector in the airing cupboard so I have put a towel over the offending patch and then put a clean sheet on the bed... When I do get the money - the mattress already needed replacing but... I will probably need to wait until more like January from an affordability perspective...

lucielle

Gosh SH you don't do things by halves.  Hope everything goes smoothly for you all
L

savingholmes

Thanks Lucielle - very true. 

Had an okay day. Rested most of it. Did about an hour in the garden. Walked the dog. Listened to a story...

Took DS to a couple of shops but only spent £1.79 myself despite huge temptation...