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Thanks Jwil and Crystal. DH isn't keen on the price - he likes the £7 per metre ones LOL. My favourites were more likeWe will see. Our cat has wrecked our current one - so whatever we get needs to be cat proof long enough to sell the house.
Well I've filled the garden bin and put it out - having done some more pruning. I may do some more painting after tea, for now I am back to resting. DD has a short day tomorrow 10-2 so has agreed to go in which is promising. DS has been accepted for the MA. Needs an income though. Our favourite house that I've seen says we need to have an offer in our hands before they will et us view. Frustrating. Another EA has asked for more info on us so may let us view.
Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.4/£127.5K target 24.6% 1/9/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 53.3K or 41.8%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
(If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/256 -
An estate agent rang today but I was busy with work so couldn't take the call. Will aim to ring them back tomorrow. I have an appointment with a joiner to come and quote on Thursday. If his quote isn't too high - I will then need to agree a date and buy the new oven hob. I still need to talk to an electrician. I am also wondering whether or not to go ahead with replastering the kitchen ceiling as DH thinks any cracks will be covered by paint but I really doubt it.
DD went to 6th form today so that was a result. I took and DS picked her up. Need to do the same potentially tomorrow. She says her head is already starting to feel mashed - so she plans to take Wednesday off to catch up. She has a shift at work Thursday and Friday. DS hopes to get paid his student loan for his postgrad in a couple of weeks and hopes to then repay the £ he owes us. He is also going to apply for a part time remote working job tonight at DH's work. I would hope he'd get an interview.
We just had a lovely roast beef dinner tea. Everyone was given a task and did it so that was good. I also ate some plums from our tree and 2 of our apples. DS is going to the chemist shortly to pick up 2 or 3 prescriptions. Will get him to buy some spuds and chocolate while he's in there. I need to update our budget - but basically not doing well!! Ho hum.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.4/£127.5K target 24.6% 1/9/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 53.3K or 41.8%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
(If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/255 -
Do a test patch on the ceiling, see if it does cover them. In theory thick paint will do it (that's what I'm doing for now).
Hope DD feels a little better tomorrow, but perhaps she has done as much education as she can at the moment.
Fingers crossed for DD.
Financially you will be up and down like a yo-yo, it's hard to save when doing a home up.Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.3 -
A test patch is a great solution - thanks. I described myself very unflatteringly but possibly accurate at the weekend when I said I was a cheapskate (when it comes to big things) but a fritter spender... Need to make sure spend on the right thingsAchieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.4/£127.5K target 24.6% 1/9/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 53.3K or 41.8%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
(If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/254 -
I went into work for half a day today and met up with some colleagues which was nice. DH also went into work but since I dropped DD off at school, I got him to leave work early to pick her up. She is having tomorrow off which simplifies things. In theory DS gets his student loan in 2 weeks and has said he will repay what he owes us then. We will see... I would have more sympathy for him if I didn't know how much he'd earned recently!! Close to the equivalent of a full year's student loan and it's whistled through his hands...
Our cleaner returns tomorrow. Looking forward to that. I have to finish work early tomorrow though because of ICT which is a pain - so hoping that I manage to get up earlier to compensate as I also worked a short day today and the new computer kit won't be ready until mid morning Thursday. Irritating.
On the home buying front - we are still going around in circles on what best to do. While there are houses I am interested in - I think they are all far more expensive than our current home - and if we do take the plunge - I want to make sure we are buying in the right place. Once DD leaves school our ties to this area will reduce - and once we are debt free we will be under less pressure - so on paper it seems to make sense to wait. Once stamp duty returns though it could wipe out the benefit of waiting to be debt free. Conversely, if people do end up selling due to job losses due to c19 or brxt - house prices could drop which could make our jump up more affordable. As a long term tracker of house prices - they seem to have shot up disproportionately recently and I am worried they could drop just as fast. Unfortunately the right decision often only becomes apparent with hindsight. I think if we stay around here there is little point moving. Our house is a decent size - and even when we bought it we always said it would take another £100K to get rooms the same size locally. I worry that some of the places with land are all older houses with hidden problems having lived in new/nearly new for most of our married life....
I'm going to try and take it step by step. To move we need to redecorate. I own a lot of paint. Start with that!! Also need to get the kitchen finished. I went upstairs last night to a pool of water on the bathroom floor again - hence my reluctance to replaster yet. If we did just paint it for now it would still look heaps better. There are flooding marks on our ceiling - it would be interesting to see if they go away after painting. If they don't it answers the question on whether we need to replaster anyway.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.4/£127.5K target 24.6% 1/9/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 53.3K or 41.8%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
(If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/254 -
The bed refund finally came back - £453 and change. It all helps. Just took the dog for a walk. I have one last CC to go out before payday. Around £130. I'm hoping if we can manage to be good between now and Tuesday - that I can clear another £100 off the CC we've been spending on. Once we are back on track with that - need to stop using it as with the kitchen spends and delayed refunds the bill went quite high!Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.4/£127.5K target 24.6% 1/9/25
(If took bigger lump sum = 53.3K or 41.8%)
4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
(If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/253 -
Stain block paint on the ceiling, do the whole lot though as it's thick paint, then put your normal colour on top.
With older homes, usually what you see is what you get, then you budget / save to do everything over time. Usually hidden problems are when a property has been quickly modernised / adapted for things.
I don't think many people would have sympathy for DS in those circumstances, hopefully he has learnt.
I'm glad the refund came and have confidence you can get through to Tuesday.
Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.3 -
I agree, maybe fill the cracks with something like Polyfilla and the use stain block, then paint.
I would always prefer an old house over a new build. We are all different! Do you know where the water is coming from in the bathroom? I must have missed that in your diary? If it just active bathing routines? Then maybe get new bathroom flooring fitted, specifically for a wet room? Bit expensive but will sort the problem.What I do not give, you must never take by force.
Mortgage outstanding - 30/12/22 - £25,900. 31/01/23 - £22,300. 28/02/23 - £20,500. 31/03/23 - £17,500. 30/04/23 - £15,800. 30/05/23 - £13,800. 31/06/23 - £11,300. 31/07/23 - £9,800. 31/08/23 - £8,300. 30/09/23 - £6,000. 31/10/23 - £3,000. 30/11/23 - £1,200. 06/12/23 - £00.00
God save us everyone, As we burn inside the fire of a thousand suns, For the sins of our hands, The sins of our tongues, The sins of our fathers, The sins of our young. Linkin Park3 -
Tahlullah.H said:I agree, maybe fill the cracks with something like Polyfilla and the use stain block, then paint.
I would always prefer an old house over a new build. We are all different! Do you know where the water is coming from in the bathroom? I must have missed that in your diary? If it just active bathing routines? Then maybe get new bathroom flooring fitted, specifically for a wet room? Bit expensive but will sort the problem.3 -
Can you look into renting or buying a field locally? This would give you an idea if the actuality of having a small holding would suit. Or is it the more rural lifestyle you want. We are rural here in a smallish town, but with a modern and manageable house. My mother in law has a small holding nearby and although initially I liked the idea of having our own, in reality I dont fancy al the extra work and upkeep. There is always some DIY, maintenance or animal thing to do and they only have 8 acres and 13 animals.Mortgage start date Nov 2014 - £90,545 over 25 years
Re-mortgage Oct 2017 - 78,295 over 23 years
Re-mortgage Jan 2020 - 55,000 over 26 years @ 1.94%
Current Mortgage Outstanding Middle December 2020 - £47893.35 - a reduction of £42,652 in just over 6 years!3
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