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Back, still in debt, probably depressed (Take 2)

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  • Uniscots97
    Uniscots97 Posts: 6,687 Forumite
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    Looking forward to getting paid so I can make some more debt payments. I sold another item so once that clears I'll add that too, roughly £5. Might see what else I can sell.
    CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J
  • Uniscots97
    Uniscots97 Posts: 6,687 Forumite
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    Sorry not been about, not too well at the moment
    CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J
  • runninglea
    runninglea Posts: 907 Forumite
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    Hope you are feeling better soon
    Year 2019 (1,700/£17000mortgage repayment)Overall mortgage (71,400/165568) (44
    .1%) (42/100) payments made. Total paid 2019 year £1,700

    Total paid 2017 year £15,300Total paid 2018 year £13,600
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,594 Ambassador
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    Hope you are on the mend soon.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

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  • Uniscots97
    Uniscots97 Posts: 6,687 Forumite
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    Thank you, got some sort of stomach bug. I need to update my totals and my bag savings
    CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J
  • Uniscots97
    Uniscots97 Posts: 6,687 Forumite
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    Updated my bag saving totals, can't believe how much I would have spent on bags for shopping. I've been putting the money in a tin and won't open it till the end of the year.

    OH and I still aren't getting on but he does acknowledge he's got an issue with remembering things but we've still had rows and he's still spending money (that he doesn't have) like water and not moving quick enough to help me get the house sold. He's off for a few days but done nothing but moan about the place being messy yet won't lift the stuff he uses.

    Seen some toys that LO would love at a ridiculously low price and tempted to get them and put them away for birthday or Christmas
    CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J
  • Mnd
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    No.79 save £12k in 2020. Total end May £11610
    Annual target £24000
  • Uniscots97
    Uniscots97 Posts: 6,687 Forumite
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    Hi All, not been great. Sorry not been about. Really not been well and OH just not helping. Everything is always someone else's or my fault not his. I'm pretty much worn out.
    CC2 = £8687.86 ([STRIKE]£10000[/STRIKE] )CC1 = £0 ([STRIKE]£9983[/STRIKE] ); Reusing shopping bags savings =£5.80 vs spent £1.05.Wine is like opera. You can enjoy it even if you don't understand it and too much can give you a headache the next day J
  • maddiemay
    maddiemay Posts: 5,138 Forumite
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    Oh Uni I wish that there was something that I could do or say that would help, it sounds like OH is just not partner material, whether because he is just immature and rather selfish or has even deeper issues.

    I hope that you feel better soon and are able to get a little rest over the weekend, I hope that little one is OK.

    Take care
    MM x
    The best thing about the future is that it comes one day at a time. (Abraham Lincoln)
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,594 Ambassador
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    Sorry that things are difficult for you.
    I think your OH is sadly a big part of your problem.
    Take care of you xx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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