Some of the things he says...

JIL

DUTR wrote: »

Perhaps the OP isn't as strong as you (and some of the other posters) , in fairness most blokes wouldn't talk like that to their partner/friend.
But I have dated people who for whatever reason lacks confidence and it is trying, if they do did leave I wouldn't see it as a great loss that some describe, it's not as if the OP's partner wouldn't meet someone new , so must have some appeal of some description.

But this isn't a new thing, see previous threads and the op rather than tell her partner how it makes her feel, writes for advice on what to do.

A previous thread blamed the lack of space in a one bedroom flat for his behaviour.

Pollycat

DUTR wrote: »

Perhaps the OP isn't as strong as you (and some of the other posters) , in fairness most blokes wouldn't talk like that to their partner/friend.
But I have dated people who for whatever reason lacks confidence and it is trying, if they do did leave I wouldn't see it as a great loss that some describe, it's not as if the OP's partner wouldn't meet someone new , so must have some appeal of some description.

I'm confused about this post.
It sounds like you have empathy with the OPs partner.
Or have I misunderstood?

DUTR

Pollycat wrote: »

I'm confused about this post.
It sounds like you have empathy with the OPs partner.
Or have I misunderstood?

I'm confused at why you are on my back at my posts?
I think with my reply I considered your attack from another thread.
I have empathy for any poster on here, it's not a case of all blokes are bad and all ladies are not bad. Sometimes two people can strike the wrong chords and bring out the worst in them, that is not taking a side or blaming the other.
Fortunately I trust you have not been in that situation .

SuperPikachu

Pollycat wrote: »

I'm confused about this post.
It sounds like you have empathy with the OPs partner.
Or have I misunderstood?

You are starting to remind me of Umbridge in Harry Potter

System

My ex regularly called me a fat c*** amongst other derogatory things, hes an ex for a good reason.

My bf has never called me anything like that, he desbn;t even make light of the fact im mentally ill or even joke about it. I think that would be the line as its quite personal, but my god if he ever seriously called me a c*** i;d be gone before he could finish his sentance.