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Help needed with sister

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  • Marvel1
    Marvel1 Posts: 7,461 Forumite
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    edited 15 January 2018 at 6:25PM
    Of course your not to blame, and frankly if she had an affair with your husband why have you even let the manky mare in your house.
    Get her out of your house with your boot firmly up her jacksy.
    OMG.

    Yet I assume still with the husband, I thought it takes two of them ;)
  • cjdavies wrote: »
    I assume still with the husband, I thought it takes two of them ;)
    which would be all well and good if it was a thread moaning about her husband, alas............;)
    ,
    Fully paid up member of the ignore button club.
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  • spirit
    spirit Posts: 2,886 Forumite
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    Oh do be quiet Guest or do i have to put this alter ego on ignore as well.

    Ah. I thought their posting style was familiar. Only see theirs now when they are quoted as I put them on ignore a while back.
    Mortgage free as of 10/02/2015. Every brick and blade of grass belongs to meeeee. :j
  • eschaton
    eschaton Posts: 2,143 Forumite
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    What???? Replying to those accusing me of making things up by explaining myself? Who are the nasty ones?

    I think you have a few screws loose.

    Get help before it's too late.
  • all very sad.
    please don't lose sympathy for folks with genuine mental anguish and, maybe, only a forum like this to gain some support/advice
    :A Goddess :A
  • seashore22
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    sleepymans wrote: »
    all very sad.
    please don't lose sympathy for folks with genuine mental anguish and, maybe, only a forum like this to gain some support/advice

    That's the real damage. I think most of us can shrug off the trolls, it's the fact that real people with real problems will get ignored or treated with suspicion.
  • Mr.Generous
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    I am intrigued as to why her husband needs condoms when he's with her sister, does the vasectomy only work when he's with his own wife?

    The alternative - that he thinks she is high risk for infection but still goes there - well - enough said.

    When making up stories the little details are important.
    Mr Generous - Landlord for more than 10 years. Generous? - Possibly but sarcastic more likely.
  • OK, so I confronted both my husband and sister last night and got the truth (as far as I can make out). He was very tight-lipped at first but she told him to confess or she would so they both told me that they'd been having an affair for pretty much the last year and worse, my husband has been starting taking drugs as well. I broke down there and then, saying that I could no longer live with that level of deceipt in my life so I said I wished them both to leave which they did. I half suspect that they've gone to my sister's house and that the little charade she played out on my doorstep the other night was just a sham so she could carry on seeing my husband under my own roof. So thankyou to all those who are doubting my story, I hope you're happy now?
  • Pollycat
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    OK, so I confronted both my husband and sister last night and got the truth (as far as I can make out). He was very tight-lipped at first but she told him to confess or she would so they both told me that they'd been having an affair for pretty much the last year and worse, my husband has been starting taking drugs as well. I broke down there and then, saying that I could no longer live with that level of deceipt in my life so I said I wished them both to leave which they did. I half suspect that they've gone to my sister's house and that the little charade she played out on my doorstep the other night was just a sham so she could carry on seeing my husband under my own roof. So thankyou to all those who are doubting my story, I hope you're happy now?
    I'm confused.
    Why would those people who are doubting your story be happy about yet another update that they don't believe? :huh:

    WOW!
    What a few days you've had!
    From being (presumably) happily married, your drug-taking, cheating husband has gone off with your sister. :eek:

    If you think they've gone to your sister's house, what about the 'violent good-for-nothing boyfriend'?
    Or are they planning a menage a trois?

    Did you really have no suspicions at all about an affair between your husband and your sister - 2 people who are (or are supposed to be) very close to you?
  • System
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    Well I might be partly to blame as I egged her on at a party last year when someone jokingly suggested that we do the "keys in a bowl" thing and I got paired up with her husband. It wasn't full swinging though

    nuff said....:rotfl::rotfl:
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