Help needed with sister

Yellow_petal

CommitedToChange wrote: »

So no violent boyfriend?

Just getting your story correct

Yes, her husband is abusive

Yellow_petal

BorisThomson wrote: »

Can we stop feeding the troll? Her ridiculous tales are amusing, but fundamentally she's basing this one around an abused woman. That's not funny, it's sick, and seeing this could deter someone in genuine difficulty (and danger) from getting help.

Excuse me? According to some, this is a money saving website anyway so none of us should be looking for that sort of help. So which is it - do you want to help people who have problems that aren't money related or not?

SuperPikachu

Yellow_petal wrote: »

Excuse me? According to some, this is a money saving website anyway so none of us should be looking for that sort of help. So which is it - do you want to help people who have problems that aren't money related or not?

@Yellow petal, what exactly is the purpose of your various posts though? Do they just amuse you? (Immature sense of humour maybe?) Or do you feel you have to do this so you get our attention? Or is it some sort of wild escape from reality?

Honestly intrigued.

spirit

BorisThomson wrote: »

Can we stop feeding the troll? Her ridiculous tales are amusing, but fundamentally she's basing this one around an abused woman. That's not funny, it's sick, and seeing this could deter someone in genuine difficulty (and danger) from getting help.

I gave the benefit of the doubt at the start which is why I gave the womensaid link. so if that helps anyone else reading this, then all well and good.

Pollycat

Yellow_petal wrote: »

WelI I don't mean directly responsible but I did snog her husband at the party so I wouldn't mind if she'd done the same, even in bed maybe but if it was full sex which I think it could be then that's a different kettle of fish. She's always thought I was my parents favourite and has been jealous of me because of the way I look, my husband, kids and my house so maybe I shouldn't have come on to her husband so much that night?

Don't you know if your sister and your husband had sex?
Haven't you asked him?

What does your husband say/think about your sister staying at your house?

Re the negative posts:
I always find the drip-feeding of increasingly salacious or gory information slightly suspicious.

seashore22

I think you're starting to show your true colours op and it's not pretty, is it?

I was sort of ok with you being a bit of a fantasist and having a go at your imaginary relatives, but I get the feeling that even you are a bit bored with that now and are starting to get nasty to real life people on here.

Not ok and I for one will listen to BorisThompson and his advice to stop giving you the oxygen of attention.

Yellow_petal

Pollycat wrote: »

Don't you know if your sister and your husband had sex?
Haven't you asked him?
What does your husband say/think about your sister staying at your house?

It has preyed on my mind for a while actually so now she's at our house I will use the opportunity to have it out with both of them. He says they just kissed but then I found the condoms yet she said this morning that they had a full-blown affair. I haven't spoken to her since the outburst this morning so maybe it was a reaction to me asking her about the missing money but we'll see.

Pollycat wrote: »

Re the negative posts:
I always find the drip-feeding of increasingly salacious or gory information slightly suspicious.

Sorry, I thought it was better to keep things simple and I didn't think everyone would want to read the rest of it anyway.

fozziebeartoo

Yellow_petal wrote: »

WelI I don't mean directly responsible but I did snog her husband at the party so I wouldn't mind if she'd done the same, even in bed maybe but if it was full sex which I think it could be then that's a different kettle of fish. She's always thought I was my parents favourite and has been jealous of me because of the way I look, my husband, kids and my house so maybe I shouldn't have come on to her husband so much that night?

BIB - yep, that seals it for me too :rotfl:

Yellow_petal

seashore22 wrote: »

I think you're starting to show your true colours op and it's not pretty, is it?

are starting to get nasty to real life people on here.

What???? Replying to those accusing me of making things up by explaining myself? Who are the nasty ones?

Pollycat

Yellow_petal wrote: »

Sorry, I thought it was better to keep things simple and I didn't think everyone would want to read the rest of it anyway.

So why did you then decide to add the stuff about the affair?
Nobody asked you to add additional information.