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Mooloo’s Managing it in 2018
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Happy New Year Everyone!
I will not give up on them, I just have to park them while I adapt my situation as necessary.
The hotel is a very nice hotel, but quiet for me, but if the food was better it would have helped. Mum is just tired to easily and not liking the food.
We will be home in a few days and I can start to improve my situation and start to make some changes. Unfortunately I have until 31st August at the shop, so I will have to just keep plodding along.
Just in limbo at the moment.When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.0 -
Happy New Year Mooloo, hope that 2019 brings you happiness and progress towards your dreams xx0
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At least, Mooloo, you will be able to say NO to your children because you have to pay for the HGV course. Please repeat that to all of them.
Don't think that because this property is not suitable that your dream cannot come to fruition - it just needs to be tweaked a bit. Although it may take you a little longer to achieve it.
Don't dismiss the idea of working for someone else completely out of hand - the fact that the responsibilities are not yours, that the worries about paying salaries are not yours can offset the so-called "freedom" of self-employment. And it would mean that you would have another pension pot.0 -
Moo, if he's not started the course is there any way out of the loan? Would he even pass the medical before anything else.
You do so much for all your family, your a brilliant mum, daughter and granny.
Please don't give up on your dream it's kept you going it might be different and take you longer to achieve but don't give up.
Like you said in a post your at the bottom of the ladder but you can climb it rung by rung, little by little.
I felt sad when I read your post this morning, but your going to change things this is your year, don't give up Xx.
I wish you the best for 2019, you deserve it.0 -
Good point.
Is there any way out of loan?
I seem to remember though that he did do the course?I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
Oh lou, did he start the course. I thought he didn't. The medical for hgv is strict and if he admitted certain things he would fail the medical. My hope is he hasn't even started it and fingers crossed mooloo can some how get out the loan. That's thousands wasted, it's heartbreaking.0
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just_trying wrote: »Oh lou, did he start the course. I thought he didn't. The medical for hgv is strict and if he admitted certain things he would fail the medical. My hope is he hasn't even started it and fingers crossed mooloo can some how get out the loan. That's thousands wasted, it's heartbreaking.
I hope you are right.
I would be crying.
What a blooming waste of moneyI am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
No he went for the medical but it was the wrong address. I think he was conned, and therefore I have been.
Mum decided to come to the room at 5pm
I am not seeing the new year in as I planned!
In bed. Trying to be quiet.When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.0 -
Mooloo I hope and pray that this will be a better year for you than you might expect x0
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Morning. Happy New Year.
I have yet to start a thread for 2019
Because I don't have a title or a very positive message to start with.
I am not sure sewing my way to my dreams is how I am going to get my life back on track.
I am going to scribble in my diary and see if I can get some clarity.
But Happy New Year anyway xWhen I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.0
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